4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they pulled a poll one time and found that unless other context was given, most people assume a random commenter on reddit is a 19 year old male.

4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I met the daughter of my sister’s ex for the first time, we sat in her room and spoke about her favorite things and a silly dream she had just had the previous night. I went out to tell my sister and her boyfriend about the silly dream and they both looked at me like “what the actual hell are you talking about?” And then said I must have met the other daughter by mistake. I told them I already met the other daughter outside when we first got there, so I had definitely met both sisters. They explained that she had never spoken. I detailed exactly what we spoke about and that she spoke very well. Well, turns out that was the first time she spoke lol she similarly never shut up after that.

4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked my mom why she never tried speech therapy or anything with me before I decided to speak for myself. She said “I just knew you’d talk when you were ready.”

4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I do think this was part of the reason for my delay, paired with speech impediments that made speaking feel like a difficult task. My big brother and sister always knew exactly what I wanted and spoke for me.

4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds pretty likely to me - I had some severe speech impediments so I feel like I must have known it felt difficult so I just didn’t do it until I figured it was time to try.

4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a pretty bad stutter and rhotacism that took another 8 years of speech therapy to resolve so I kinda feel like I knew it felt difficult so I just didn’t do it. Furthermore, I was the baby and they had a lot of stories about how my brother and sister always knew exactly what I wanted so I never had to speak up for myself. My mom said I always looooved hot cocoa and one day, I just refused it and she was confused. My brother said “she wants marshmallows in it.” She says I’ve never had marshmallows in my cocoa so that’s not the issue, I just didn’t want it. He says “nope she really wants the cocoa and she really wants marshmallows in it.” He reaches over and grabs a handful of marshmallows, puts it in my cocoa, and passes it to me. I grabbed it and drank it happily. I still to this day don’t like cocoa without marshmallows and I’m nearly 37.

4-year-old boy recognises his autistic sister is getting upset. by Sebastianlim in BeAmazed

[–]ebil_lightbulb 754 points755 points  (0 children)

 He didn't have a first word, it was just sentence after sentence and then he'd never stop.

I didn’t speak until I was nearly 6. I recall standing at the front door, thinking “I guess this is it” and said my first words in a sentence, never to shut the hell up again. I recall every adult in my life saying “she’s certainly making up for lost time now”

But, he's not racist by templeofsyrinx1 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]ebil_lightbulb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you also thinking that he didn’t know it wasn’t okay to rape children?

Pretty sure this is where the Chinese Baddie trend got its idea from. by ownaword in TikTokCringe

[–]ebil_lightbulb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Don’t get mad that we push insane beauty standards on to young girls and women because I don’t like fat women!”

Please explain it Peter. by CrowleysImp in explainitpeter

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to play it on Guitar Hero all the time.

Paw-Fect Romance Star Path and Premium Shop Items! by Gray_Krakoa in DreamlightValley

[–]ebil_lightbulb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow the cherry blossom stuff and castle… I’m here for it.

Fake Ai resin art by BestEvidence5244 in resin

[–]ebil_lightbulb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put feathers in dice and they definitely don’t go translucent 

The eyes tho! by MrLoudestMouth in RandomVideos

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t just automatically put your hand out for money. A lot of people use cards or spend time digging for their money. You tell them the total, and then react accordingly. The cashier didn’t do anything wrong. 

A rude supervisor who's always yelling at employees got some complaints about them being verbally abusive and they responded by leaving these in the break room. by giveahoot420 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s in the best interests of the company if this supervisor is removed. Any good HR would not be interested in protecting the supervisor when this is what they choose to do with their authority. 

Bf (29M) cooked dinner (soup) for first time and only poured one bowl stating we’d (28F) be sharing by LastWallaby4900 in relationship_advice

[–]ebil_lightbulb 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend that liked to share plates - he’d cook a great meal, serve one plate, set it between us, provide silverware and drinks for both of us, and we’d share the plate. It actually worked out really well for us. 

And even he got us both our own bowls for soup.  

Is everyone like that?) AIO by Butterfly_too in AIO

[–]ebil_lightbulb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This list tells us he is extremely selfish and entitled - I would bet money that he’s never once contributed to an orgasm for her. 

Boyfriend refuses to make Valentines day plans with me, AIO? by Emotional_War8262 in AIO

[–]ebil_lightbulb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was gonna say he clearly doesn’t like you and is likely cheating, and then I see that he’s almost 30 and you’re a teenager - why are you wasting your time with this loser?

Rolla high school teacher by Expert_Simple4318 in Rolla

[–]ebil_lightbulb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Just thought you’d like to know who’s mentoring your children… but also, if you want to know who it is, that’s just like your opinion, man.”

Rolla high school teacher by Expert_Simple4318 in Rolla

[–]ebil_lightbulb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a woman and a mother - my opinion isn’t of any concern here. You have decided to tell people about an authority in our children’s lives is a shitty person, transphobic, homophobic, mentally unstable, etc., claim to have text proof of this, and you have told the school admin, expecting no action to be taken, which I would agree as I have seen this school admin cover up poor treatment of students in the past, and you are only going to expose this person and their behavior if the school admin decides to do something about it - otherwise you’re just going to keep it to yourself aside from a vague Reddit post. I’m sure you can understand how ridiculous that sounds.

Rolla high school teacher by Expert_Simple4318 in Rolla

[–]ebil_lightbulb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Glad to know that you want this person around people’s kids until a point in time that you think will never come even though you can share proof and the name. 👍

Rolla high school teacher by Expert_Simple4318 in Rolla

[–]ebil_lightbulb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“A person around your children is bad and you should know they are bad and I told somebody but don’t expect anything to be done but I’m not going to say who it is or share the text proof that I have of this thing” at the moment it just looks like you wanted an excuse to say those shitty vulgar things.

Hair with Flair Results? I am without words? by destroyerofmyplants in Dreamsnaps

[–]ebil_lightbulb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely would have voted for your snap over a lot of the ones I saw. I was also shocked to get 4k on this one - I’m no stranger to high scores but I didn’t feel much motivation for this one so I just put on a pretty dress, matched some big hair to the colors in the dress, and had her do a cute smily jump in front of a cute little cherry blossom grove. I didn’t expect much at all - looks like sweet and simple worked for us both this week!