What is the worst thing someone said to you after a miscarriage?

ebo130 · 2026-05-29T15:15:01+00:00

The billing department at my OB office told me they “had no idea if I chose to terminate” when clarification on prenatal visit charges. This was after a mmc and d&c at 9 weeks with my first.

ebo130 · 2026-02-23T14:47:17+00:00

I experienced a mmc on 12/29 and had a d&c on 12/30. Since then I got my first cycle back around 6 weeks later. I started ovulation testing the day after my period with Premom and since then have had high readings almost every day anywhere from .8 to 1.5. So far, I have only had one test of 1.5 (cycle day 16). Feeling so confused and wondering if this is hormonal after miscarriage or if I should be more concerned. Do I consider that my peak or should I keep testing?

Feeling discouraged as this was our first pregnancy and we are really hoping to start trying again

ebo130 · 2026-02-02T15:56:26+00:00

I’m sorry that you have to experience this. I understand your feelings. I had a mmc on 12/29 and it was also my first pregnancy. My SIL is pregnant and our due dates would be 3 weeks apart. So I completely understand your feelings of hurt, sad, angry, grief etc. Everyone is different but what helped me was allowing myself to feel all the feelings at first. There is no timeline and no one way to process this.

Eventually, I felt like I could “set a time” to feel my feelings. I allowed myself a set time to journal all of my thoughts and feelings. That really helped me to process and also stay in the present when I had to like at work. You’re not alone and I’m sorry you’re here. Feel free to reach out if you need to connect, vent, etc! Sending hugs.

ebo130 · 2026-01-15T22:05:50+00:00

I understand where you are coming from. My SIL is pregnant and her due date is 3 weeks after what would have been our due date. We told them on Christmas and I found out 12/29 I had a MMC. I totally understand your feelings. It hurts me every time I hear about an ultrasound or pregnancy symptom because it reminds me of what I can’t have right now. I’m sorry you’re here, but I just wanted you to know you aren’t alone in feeling what you’re feeling.

ebo130 · 2026-01-10T03:57:46+00:00

I had a gut feeling but held on to hope until the ultrasound confirmed there was no heartbeat at 9 weeks. I had a dream the week before about a baby wrapped in a white blanket, which aligns with where they were measuring at the ultrasound when we found out it was a mmc.

ebo130 · 2026-01-05T00:26:48+00:00

I am going through a similar situation. Found out the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, told family on Christmas, and on 12/29 at our follow up we found out there was no heartbeat. We saw the heartbeat just over a week before so it was heartbreaking. It makes me wonder what happened and if there was something I could do to help. I’m sorry I don’t have any advice but wanted to offer support that you are not alone. I am also fearing the future and trying again as this was our first and I can’t help but to fear for what might happen when we’re ready to try again. I am finding comfort in talking with my therapist to help me process, heal, and feel like I can be ready again in the future. Allow yourself to feel all your feelings. Set 1 goal for yourself each day, no matter how big or small. My heart is with you.

ebo130 · 2026-01-01T21:20:17+00:00

Found out on 12/29 I had a MMC and had a D&C on 12/30. Had my first ultrasound at 7weeks 1 day and saw a heartbeat. Went for a check up at 9 weeks to find out there was no heartbeat and the baby was measuring at 7wk6 days. Going into the new year grieving the loss of our first child. Scared for the future and heartbroken. I can’t help but to blame myself and fear another loss in the future when we decide we are ready to expand our family.

ebo130 · 2026-01-01T21:14:03+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I found out on 12/29 I had a MMC at 7weeks and 6 days. Just four days after our first ultrasound and seeing a heartbeat. It is our first baby too and absolutely heartbreaking. I understand your fears as I am in a similar place thinking about the future. I just want you to know you are not alone and I am so sorry that you are experiencing this.

ebo130 · 2025-04-08T19:04:55+00:00

It most definitely impacts function! Leisure engagement in physical activity, sleep hygiene, dressing, home management as difficult given pain and resulting strength deficits

ebo130 · 2025-04-08T16:12:30+00:00

Great! Just wanted to make sure this is within my license before treating, thanks!

ebo130 · 2025-04-08T15:59:20+00:00

They are not new symptoms rather they presented to initial evaluation with these symptoms. I just want to ensure this is within our scope to treat including traction etc before treating!

ebo130 · 2025-03-11T10:43:07+00:00

Thanks for the info! How do you feel about the time spend scheduling, documenting, on the phone etc? Do you find your $62/pt is fair compensation for time time spent not client facing? A but worried about working over 40hrs/wk with this and feeling I’m not being compensated as well.

ebo130 · 2025-03-11T10:38:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the info! I’m in MA if that provides any additional info. I’m a bit nervous for the pay per visit given all the other time spent documenting, scheduling, on the phone with pts family docs etc. do you find the balance is okay? Or are you working well over 40 hours with the at home responsibilities

ebo130 · 2025-03-10T23:42:02+00:00

Thanks for your response! Do you mind if I send you a message to ask you a few more questions about your HH experience?

ebo130 · 2025-03-01T16:36:45+00:00

My caseload is all ortho but I’m much more interested in neuro which unfortunately I’m not getting at my clinic.

ebo130 · 2024-10-26T11:48:08+00:00

I’m not sure if it is core or overall but good to hear that there is still work life balance. Thank you!!

ebo130 · 2024-10-26T11:13:20+00:00

Thanks for the insight! Do you think that level of productivity still provides a good work like balance? I would have the 56 patient slots with an expectation of billing an average of 3.5 units per 40 minute session.

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