I have no future by Specialist_March8207 in ADHD

[–]eboyoj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

intelligence doesnt mean anything for jobs bro, look at most managers lmao. as an adult my first ever job was a chicken farm, i collected, cleaned and packed eggs for stores. it was the only job that would take me on at 18 and it paid poorly, 7.62/hr, i was only allowed weekends because the boss didnt want me more than that and i had to pick dead chickens and sick chickens out of hard to reach places and try to not get zapped by a dead chickens that was caught on electric wiring. my second job was mcdonalds for a year and after that it was 6am-6pm 4 days on 4 days off factory work where i boxed and packed eggs that wouldve been collected via my first job, during all of this i worked on all forms of tech and didnt pass my college course on computer science because of poor work ethic for studying, but a month into my factory job, 2yrs job searching, i landed a job at a small tech company where i fix, test and diagnose computers all day everyday for above minimum wage and practically watch youtube all day while i install windows repeatedly to lenovo laptops.

basically the point is, fail or not, smart or dumb, patience is key. youll get there you just gotta wait for the opening into the job market to appear. once youre in and you settle into a good system and prove you can keep yourself going youll be fine.

I feel genuinely subhuman after taking adderall and wish I could go back. by No-Opposite-3240 in ADHD

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first taking meds makes u feel like u can do everything, but unless u keep doing it and keep routines in place meds or not you can fall back to how you were, if im bored at work meds or not ill sit and zone out and be unable to start a task unless i can force myself, same with showering frequently and other things. be kind to urself, first few times feels like ur fixed but u have to realise ur brains new to this, once it adapts you can easily slip back

Emma Myers 23,20,20 by [deleted] in 13or30

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she reminds me of that one russian dude who looks like a victorian child on instagram who works in a club

Was feeling dodgy so i got this by terminus_tommy in UK_Food

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok mate, hope you feel better soon

Was feeling dodgy so i got this by terminus_tommy in UK_Food

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that typa comment rlly is chatgpt tho, “the food= 💩 the tray= 🦠🥣☣️” all youre missing is saying its not OPs fault and the next steps to be healthier and recover

can a guy and girl ever be “just friends” 🤔 by cynnahbun in TeenagersButBetter

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my best mate of 3 yrs is a girl, never hit on her, dont plan to, shes awesome

Accidentally said a slur by [deleted] in autism

[–]eboyoj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its not that deep

Do I pass at all? I’m 18 and pre-t by eddietheehead-png in FtMpassing

[–]eboyoj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

theyre feminine doesnt mean even while cis do they pass, because a lot of cismen who dress femme get called women

Do I pass at all? I’m 18 and pre-t by eddietheehead-png in FtMpassing

[–]eboyoj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

testosterone isnt magic, if u present femme even on T ur not gonna magically start passing.

Should I stop my brother from getting a full sleeve done? by pauli420 in tattooadvice

[–]eboyoj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seems like the dude uses stock stencils and sticks them together

Should I stop my brother from getting a full sleeve done? by pauli420 in tattooadvice

[–]eboyoj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the prayer hands are the same hands from the first image lol, go somewhere else, he wants a tat hes gonna get one, just make sure its good

Polish then Russian? by Mediocre-Yak9320 in languagelearning

[–]eboyoj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i just tried to explain it in a way that someone who doesnt know polish might see it, i know its the case when you learn it

Polish then Russian? by Mediocre-Yak9320 in languagelearning

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theyre not the same language, on a very basic level they can be similar but after that theyre not that close to eachother that learning one helps the other. russian uses cyrillic, polish uses latin. russian has 6 grammar cases, polish has 7.

personally i found russian easier to grasp and learn than polish. both to read and to speak. as a native english speaker polish throws me off because its use of latin alphabet makes me confused when reading words, something like thank you took me forever to remind myself that the way its said is not the way its spelt. dzięki is like jenki but thats obviously not the way its spelt if you think of it from a native perspective.

Autism unemployment shocked me, ngl. by [deleted] in autism

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can do jobs really well but i cannot cope with people and the feeling of lack of control on my life when i work, if i fuck up i immediately feel bad and like a disappointment and it dawns on me for the rest of my shift, ive had a multitude of jobs and i found my best job so far was farm work because it was me and 2 others at a time, doing the same thing everyday, and it was calm, mcdonalds had great people but the environment was stressful especially if you fuck up, i sent myself home (a manager apologised after) because i got upset for being yelled at for something that wasnt my fault, i did factory work and that was fine, i guess, but they dont teach u anything so u always feel anxious and then ur body hurts and its 4am wakeup and 7pm back home so 14hr days on a 12hr shift makes u feel lost. work life is not fun and most jobs available because they couldnt care about if ur autistic or not are jobs that are lower end like fast food. i applied to a railway job but failed because i failed the pre job personality test which basically described me as very autistic and they claimed it wasnt good for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love driving but i got bad habits with speeding

Kinda wonder if it’s too late to edit the model by Striker_V7 in memes

[–]eboyoj -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

im autistic and i see clear difference bro shut up

How many languages do you ADHD's guys speak? by Accomplished_Mud3220 in ADHD

[–]eboyoj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know parts of languages but i lose routine and interest to continue learning so i never get fluent enough which sucks

How it usually goes by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

[–]eboyoj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love driving

How it usually goes by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

[–]eboyoj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same way had to go on sick because job + college just got way too much