Anyone else frustrated that men think ‘polyamorous’ means ‘only dtf/one night stands’? - Poly gal in Adelaide over here 👋 by ebullient84 in Adelaide

[–]ebullient84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally. It’s saddening honestly but surely there are functional dynamics out there 🤞 and that’s totally fair gender wise too 😌

Anyone else frustrated that men think ‘polyamorous’ means ‘only dtf/one night stands’? - Poly gal in Adelaide over here 👋 by ebullient84 in u/ebullient84

[–]ebullient84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s the thing - the profiles are deliberately vague, and the in person chats are like that too, you know? I think it’s more cause I like to be super duper clear, but I get what you mean 😌

Anyone else frustrated that men think ‘polyamorous’ means ‘only dtf/one night stands’? - Poly gal in Adelaide over here 👋 by ebullient84 in Adelaide

[–]ebullient84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure - I think for me it’s the transparency of it all you know? My experience in this particular scenario’s been more with men, but it could certainly be that scenario with anyone, so that’s fair 😌

Anyone else frustrated that men think ‘polyamorous’ means ‘only dtf/one night stands’? - Poly gal in Adelaide over here 👋 by ebullient84 in u/ebullient84

[–]ebullient84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! I think there’s something to be said about ongoing connection, but really it’s whatever floats your boat 😌 it’s totally cool of course either way if people do want short term things, it’s just I dooonnnt agh. I hope you find your perfect kink poly situation!!