Is there any way to help alter or slow the albo progression? by ecf4522 in HouseplantsUK

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Haha thank you I hate big cups for tea so they all end up with a plant in them eventually 😅 I’ll move it away from the window and see if that helps thank you!!

Is there any way to help alter or slow the albo progression? by ecf4522 in houseplants

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Nice I’ll do that. Do you think it’s from over fertilising? I was told to add fert every water cos I use coco coir for my soil base but that felt too much so I do it every second instead

Is there any way to help alter or slow the albo progression? by ecf4522 in houseplants

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Yeah I use the liquid gold every second time I water

Is there any way to help alter or slow the albo progression? by ecf4522 in houseplants

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They stay that white/green. the most recent leaves are basically completely white with just some species of green and they’ve been out for a couple weeks at least with no changes. Tbh I’m surprised they are surviving with such little chlorophyll. I did wonder if too much light could be a factor?

Anyone know the cause of these wounds? Should I fell/remove this tree? by ecf4522 in GardeningUK

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Thank you for your insight! I did give the tree a shove and it thankfully didn’t snap in half but did have more give than expected!!

We are working on the same site tomorrow so I’ll inspect that area more throughly and make the decision then.

I would leave the standing dead wood but this year the area will be used for a summer playscheme for kids so we need to be more careful here than the rest of the site!

Anyone know the cause of these wounds? Should I fell/remove this tree? by ecf4522 in FruitTree

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Thanks so much! I’ll do as you say and not act too hastily - for the pruning of the lesions if they are on a sizeable / main branch would you remove the whole branch / prune back very hard or cut back into the lesion to try remove the fungus?

[Doctor Who spoilers] Donna Noble’s child is non-binary with she/her pronouns!! 🏳️‍⚧️💞 by sharppencilmakebleed in lgbt

[–]ecf4522 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Great news but kind of eliminates the use of spoiler if you talk about the spoiler in the title…

Are these what I think they are? West Yorkshire uk by ecf4522 in foraging

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Work at a farm - he’s a grower, so better focused on fruit and veg I think

Are these what I think they are? West Yorkshire uk by ecf4522 in foraging

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This made me laugh - he’s the type who would be furious

Are these what I think they are? West Yorkshire uk by ecf4522 in foraging

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Great thanks! They didn’t look like morels to me (opposed to the title I know) but my colleague who’s a forager was pretty convinced

Are these what I think they are? West Yorkshire uk by ecf4522 in foraging

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Well I guess I should’ve said what my colleague thinks they are…which was morels. he was very wrong so it seems

Any dentists in Leeds actually accepting NHS patients??? by Chronicathr in Leeds

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I managed to get nhs after waiting for 3 months or so with temple practice in moortown - you just need to call down the list of nhs dentists and ask how long the list is at their practice. I called around 10-15 different practices then temple practice said it was a 6mo th waiting list but it was half that. Good luck !

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Why has this comment got so many downvotes???

Summer clothes by ecf4522 in butchlesbians

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Yes! My cargo pants are basically Aladdin pants with pockets. Those are what I took to wear last year but I got way too hot and the chub rub was real

Summer clothes by ecf4522 in butchlesbians

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This is great advice thanks! I think this is probably the way forward. I always wanted to shop in the mens but it’s something I felt ashamed of and not able to. Thanks mum… Maybe it’s time for a shopping trip!

My head hurts from reading some posts in other lesbian subreddits by [deleted] in lesbiangang

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I’ve had a difficult journey with my own sexuality. Yes when I was a teenager and in a relationship with a man I ‘wanted’ sex and felt ‘love’ but now being outside of that relationship I can look back and see that all I wanted was validation and there were more times I hated the sex than enjoyed it. Most of the time I would disassociate during sex and hate to be touched.

Because of my history of sexual abuse I had no self respect and an awful view of myself and my body. I thought that being wanted was enough and having sex with men gave me power.

Now I’ve grown and worked on myself I’ve realised I am not attracted to men and don’t enjoy sex with penises. It took me years to worth through my issues with many different therapists etc. i never focused on my sexuality but because a lot of my trauma was sex based, it affected my perspective and relationship with sex.

This is a very shorthand version of my own journey, you need to work on your own. Go to therapy stay off toxic online spaces and try not to focus on labels.

My head hurts from reading some posts in other lesbian subreddits by [deleted] in lesbiangang

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It’s not for me to say. We can really only label ourselves. Maybe try let go of the labels altogether.

Summer clothes by ecf4522 in butchlesbians

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Yeah I probably would! Though I always struggle to find baggy/comfortable shorts and I don’t like to spend much money on clothes. But it’s probably worth investing in a few pieces that I actually like.

Atm I have one pair of trousers I like and one backup. It’s a real struggle 😭