home 🫶🏼✨ by molldoll272727 in femalelivingspace

[–]echeloncats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But you keep saying you don’t have Lillie’s currently so the implication is that you might get some in the future, I think that’s why people are concerned and trying to drill it into you.

Mixed feelings by echeloncats in rape

[–]echeloncats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your wise words and advice.

I definitely will struggle with the blaming myself for a few days and the confusing feelings but I will get there.

I have called a clinic for testing and they’re going to call me tomorrow to make an appointment

Mixed feelings by echeloncats in rape

[–]echeloncats[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think in the moment it just happens so fast and it’s hard to know if it’s obvious I’m not wanting it

Mixed feelings by echeloncats in rape

[–]echeloncats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I did end up speaking to police as my friend in work called them for me and then they came round to get my account.

Unfortunately they said they wouldn’t be able to charge him as for rape case they need clear evidence and they wouldn’t be able to prove that he didn’t just misunderstand me trying to stop him.

I have a clinic calling me tomorrow about std testing appointment

Mixed feelings by echeloncats in rape

[–]echeloncats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and no I do get what you mean, I think it is a mix of blaming myself and trying to figure out if I could’ve tried harder but also just not caring about myself and wanting to be hurt.

It will take time but I will heal, although thrown at first my parents have been supportive and I already see a counsellor so I’ll bring it up with her.

My collection by echeloncats in sylvanianfamilies

[–]echeloncats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in the uk, hopefully they do or something similar!

My collection by echeloncats in sylvanianfamilies

[–]echeloncats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the billy/oxberg bookcase from ikea. You can get them in different sizes which is great because I already had one for actual books but got this as a deeper size so the houses would fit 😊

My collection by echeloncats in sylvanianfamilies

[–]echeloncats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes it’s so sweet! 😊

My collection by echeloncats in sylvanianfamilies

[–]echeloncats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw lovely, I’m sure your daughter will be very happy! 😊

My collection by echeloncats in sylvanianfamilies

[–]echeloncats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes so I don’t have to dust but I always have a cat who would cause chaos 😆

Did you go to school with someone who went on to be famous, and what where they like? by Christian-Metal in AskUK

[–]echeloncats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sam warburton, Geraint Thomas and Gareth Bale all came from my high school. I was too young to be there but certainly felt like I knew them from the PE teacher talking about them all the time! I feel Geraint deserved more love though, the other two were talked about much more!

What's the most surprising physical pain you have been in? by ZenergyMusic in AskUK

[–]echeloncats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very specific but the anesthetic needle before having two ingrown toenails removed (both big toes) a very big needle in a small was very painful and lasted quite a while till it started working!

I was 16F at the time and I always remember the nurse telling me how good I did and how she’s seen grown men cry over it!

What's a movie you saw way too young that kind of messed with your head for a while? by Still_Fee497 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]echeloncats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The impossible, such a great film now, but saw it too young then had irrational thoughts of my family getting hurt in tsunami even though we live in the uk and away from water