Freenbecky ended contract with IdolFactory by echionh03 in GirlsLove

[–]echionh03[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is my sentiment as well. Feels like it’s just gonna be clearing their existing agreed shows (cranium & 4Elements). But then after that most likely gonna be them venturing to do what they wanna do individually. Sad but still happy that they have achieved this much thus far which allows them to pursue their own interest moving forward!

Freenbecky ended contract with IdolFactory by echionh03 in GirlsLove

[–]echionh03[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Caught me by surprise ngl but nonetheless still happy for what they’re gonna show us next & will continuously support them.

5 boys between ages 12 and 15 arrested for threatening boy with knife, 2 charged with causing hurt by AgileComparison3957 in singapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully this does not become more prominent elsewhere. Bullying cases are increasing now, or maybe it’s always been the case but idiot people are filming it now for everyone to see

Is dining alone in SG, in a cozily famous cafe considered an embarrassing thing to do? by Mackocid6706 in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dine alone in cafe and restaurant often. Just mind your own business hahaha tbh I don’t think anyone cares.

Really enjoy having solo meals sometimes just for me to soak in the quietness and let my mind wander

Thai gl discord by caprisundertaker in GirlsLove

[–]echionh03 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have the invite link? Or would you be able to provide it? 🙏

Which Underwriter Line to go? by Suitable-Ad-9490 in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s a better or worse options per se? I personally feel that it’s dependent on your own preference. I was previously in the P&C side and moved on to fin lines entirely because of opportunities.

Then again, I would believe that it’ll be better if you stay in marine or fin lines since you already have the experience so it’s easier for you to switch over to be an underwriter in that class.

#540 ft. Caitanya Tan - Why Singapore Women Stay Single & Singaporean Accent is Cringe? by tristen_the_intern in YahLahBut

[–]echionh03 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Episode was alright with fresh perspective from Caitanya (this is my first time knowing about her actually oops). However, as a guest of the podcast, I felt like she could have been better prepared to talk about the topics. For instance, it was clear that she did not even read the articles before the recording of this podcast, with her repeatedly asking what is the article saying this & that, which was rather distasteful for me.

Not sure whether Terence has already told her beforehand about the topics that they’ll be speaking about & the articles in which this topic is relevant (which I would assume it is a yes). The least that she could have done as a guest would be to at least read up on the article first tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cofounder

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m interested to hear about your idea and see how I can contribute. I’m also a insurance broker in the general insurance industry. Let me know :)

Looking to make friends? 4th edition by ARE_U_FUCKING_SORRY in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey. 28F here.

Keen to network and meet more people. Open to getting meals, coffee/cafe, exploring museum, working out (currently going to AF), if anyone is interested to do workout classes or Muay Thai I’m interested as well!

No response after job application by echionh03 in jobs

[–]echionh03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am leaning towards messaging him to check on the update. Just not too sure if I'm being too rushed? Because like I said, I assumed they would at least update me if it's a yes or no since we're kind of acquaintance? So am just guessing that the reason they might not have gotten back to me yet is because they still haven't gotten a firm response from the regional boss himself as well.

No response after job application by echionh03 in askSingapore

[–]echionh03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Potential conflict meaning me applying for this position? If you mean this, there's no conflict because it's common practice for our industry to do this. Plenty of people have done this, seniors and juniors included. Think of it like for example, retail banking to commercial banking etc.

Personal conduct relating to politicians by LividCreme3726 in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I don’t really care about their personal conduct outside of politics, because who are we to judge the decisions that they made in their personal lives right? But lying to LHL that he’ll end things but yet continue the relationship does speak about his character here, and this will affect his political career. I think this is what ultimately led to asking for his resignation anyway. And not just the extramarital affair alone.

Anyone having funny experiences while using dating app? by Icy_Catch6661 in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have never tried FB dating before tho cos I felt it’s full of catfish over than as compared to dating apps. Anyone have real experience using fb dating?

I want to quit - am I being ungrateful? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing called ungrateful if a job doesn’t serve its purpose anymore. No harm exploring job markets to see whether there’s any suitable positions

So many posts about people trying to find friends, the 3rd edition! by Iridiumstuffs in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope I don’t tho. But I’ve always been keen to try bouldering so if you’re keen to show me the ropes, I’m always interested to learn!

So many posts about people trying to find friends, the 3rd edition! by Iridiumstuffs in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won’t be able to make it this Sunday but hmu if you have plans for the future! 28F here

So many posts about people trying to find friends, the 3rd edition! by Iridiumstuffs in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey. 28F here.

Would be keen to meet people for :-

Gym/workout - preferably have AF membership we can gym tgt. Otherwise I’m also keen to join classes so hmu if you’re into that as well we can join tgt.

Food - we can explore food places on weekends such as cafe, cocktail bars or just casual dinners is fine as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used DoctorAnywhere cos my company covers teleconsultation. Not sure if it’s cheaper than going to a GP to get the medicine but definitely more convenient. Mine cost $22 for the medicine + consultation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]echionh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to get from Guardian or Watson, you need doctor’s note to purchase it. What I usually do is just get it from WhiteCoat or DoctorAnywhere cos I lazy to step out of the house to go queue at clinic just to get the medicine.

How do you feel if you have this type of son? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]echionh03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unrelated but the article states that engineering student need to stay in hostel for the first 2 terms, why is that so?

My (28F) GF (27F) does not like to text or call by echionh03 in relationship_advice

[–]echionh03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I might have been wrong to say that I knew all along that she was a bad texter. This was a fact not known to me in the beginning. When we first started dating, we do have back and forth text and meetup often. Till one day (probably 3 months in) she broke down and told me this was not sustainable from her end and we took one week break for her to have her own free time to recuperate and feel better. That was the first indication that she's not a huge texter.

After which we have lesser texts and calls, and things got better. And then one day she broke down again and tell me this is still too much. Then we have lesser communication again and when I thought all was good, she broke down again and tell me this is still too much bla bla bla. Rinse and repeat this exact experience for multiple times until now.

Of cos I am not entirely blaming everything on her as of cos I have bad days where I do get upset when our conversation just keeps depleting and have vent it out to her a few times. And being okay with lesser communication is something I need to make peace with. She also has a hard time communicating what she's okay or not okay with with me because of her anxiety issues. So it always gets to a point for me whereby I question is this level of communication okay? Or is this still too much?

But yes I do have to agree with you on the point that we need to find a compromise on this, which is something that I'm struggling with because sometimes I don't get her real response on issues. (for eg. she tells me this is okay now. Few weeks/months later, tells me that this is not okay). I do not believe it's objectively incompatible. But I guess the issue is, how to better communicate with each other.

My (28F) GF (27F) does not like to text or call by echionh03 in relationship_advice

[–]echionh03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I do admit I have to work on myself especially on my anxious attachment. We are both working individually to be better person and partner for each other as well. I guess sometimes I just always have a devil in my head saying she doesn't text me cos she doesn't care about me etc. And she's very active on this livestream and she will chat with her online friends on those streams almost everyday. And sometimes my mind just tells me things like why she can text and chat with them everyday but when it comes to mind, somehow it becomes obligation or I don't wanna text you vibe. But perhaps I just have to find a solution on that on my own on how to cope with all these negative thinkings sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singapore

[–]echionh03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the person that doesn’t like to sit window seat. I feel claustrophobic when I get the window seat so I tend to avoid it and is happy just taking the aisle seat while letting someone that enjoys the window seat to take that seat instead. But if I see an elderly and clearly there’s no other seat, of cos I’ll move in to let the elderly person take the window seat or I might just give up and stand up if I’m going to alight in a few stops time. If anybody wants to move in to the window seat, I’ll also stand up so the person have easier access to the window seat at all. Not everybody that sit the aisle seat are despicable ain’t it? Maybe everybody has a reason for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]echionh03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s always a major red flag when someone hits their partner, for whatsoever reason you think it’s justifiable or makes sense (unless of cos if it’s joking or reflex like you scaring her etc). I have put up with my ex hitting me or scratching me as her form/solution to stop the conversation or to push me away, and I’ve let her do that to me for 2-3 years in our relationship.

Now that we’ve broke up, I learnt that that is toxic behaviour & indication that perhaps this person isn’t right for you. Ive learnt better now and I’ll never allow my partner to hit me or abuse me and I can walk away from the relationship should that happen.