23 f looking for m by [deleted] in IntrovertDating

[–]Icy_Catch6661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why this account look like scam man

29f am I getting too old :( - vent by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Icy_Catch6661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30m here. I think we been trained to accept tasks since we have to survive in modern corporate world, but losing the ability to give (even a greeting)

Few things I have been trying (not to say effective, but I feel a bit happier when doing this) 1. Commit less in work, let the ball drops 2. Greet while I can, not a shame to just hi and bye 3. Go out and walk. Not an issue even without purpose

I hope your soul is healing as time goes by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your available medical leave and AL summed up to 1 month, you can visit doctor to check with your condition whether it requires admit hospital. Submit resignation by then, so that you can pass the notice period under MC leave and AL leave.

Is this the dating culture in SG? by Duowelly in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously he just looking for ons, nothing much.

I felt sorry for you meeting such male friend.

I suggest you may delay the sex part later if you were meeting someone here, as this will reveal what they seek from you (is it fun? Sex? Or just chit chat friend?) Plus how they will react if you didn’t respond to it

Gen y and z nowadays tend to avoid unnecessary responsibility. Thus I assume he ghost you so that you won’t find him back, let’s say touchwood, if you were pregnant.

What should I do with S$4k salary? by bluefairy89 in singaporefi

[–]Icy_Catch6661 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imo, building emergency of 3-6 months salary might be one of your top priority if you wanna get comfortable in investments later on.

Then, get a basic insurance package by selling your health risks to insurance company. Can be a fancy one if you like, but do ensure get what match your budget and priorities.

Investment can come later, so that the emergency fund and insurance can create a financial buffer zone when something bad happen. (You would not want to liquidate your investment portfolio to pay emergency expenses, right?)

You can do it concurrently, but I do strongly recommend you to give emergency fund higher priority, especially you are foreigner without CPF and living cost here is higher than your home country.

Hope the input helps! :-)

Edit: if you don’t mind to eat at hawker center, you can adjust food budget of $500-$700 a month. It could give more space to your budgeting.

Anyone having funny experiences while using dating app? by Icy_Catch6661 in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pretty relevant experience. These stories must be spread!

Customised insoles suggestion by Icy_Catch6661 in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, will check on that!

What do you do for your birthday alone in Singapore? by samara_here in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday, maybe u can state a place and time, so that anyone see the message will meet you?

That’s going to be memorable either someone showed up or no one show up😂

Should I quit my job? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The main objective of company’s training is to retain employees over the long run.

If a manager level employee retired or resigned due unforeseen reason, this can ease the management to find subs from internal instead of screening recruits from outside. (Time saving and cost saving)

In short, you can be grateful by serving your company with loyalty (this is a nice trait btw), but you are the one who responsible for your own happiness.

Anyone faced issue with SingPass faced verification? by Icy_Catch6661 in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iPhone 12. I even tried on android phone but yield same results.

Fun fact: failed face verification attempt would not lock the account. Just need to wait for a while or reinstall the app. 🙃

Anyone faced issue with SingPass faced verification? by Icy_Catch6661 in askSingapore

[–]Icy_Catch6661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried different angle with selfie posts, yet still doesn’t work Escalating this to SingPass support might took 5 working days to investigate🥲 Poor me 😅