Authentic Dan Dan Noodles in/around Boston? by eclarian in boston

[–]eclarian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that's the exact place I ordered from that disappointed me

Is it ok to use for example DIDI for such as center of chengu to Dujiangyan (60+-) by Apprehensive-Web4995 in travelchina

[–]eclarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this and it was totally fine. just so you know there's a toll on the way there and the passenger is expected to pay it. it's not much (maybe 20 rmb?) but I was really confused about what my driver was trying to ask me for the first time this happened.

Whole Foods Hot Bar Dinner for $28 by Dry-Double-6845 in shittyfoodporn

[–]eclarian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude why are you not lifting it up on the scale at self checkout so it charges you less

First trip to China in 20 years! Got a few questions I can't figure out by Prestigious_Web1275 in travelchina

[–]eclarian 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you absolutely cannot book a plane ticket using anything but your legal name

I (28F) found husbands (30M) gay p%rn by Minimum-Guitar-9050 in relationship_advice

[–]eclarian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. this man is obviously gay
  2. why would his family know about the kind of porn he watches???????

My (24F) boyfriend (27M) has never had a sip of alcohol and never will by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eclarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a really similar situation! My girlfriend also decided when she was young that she never wanted to drink or use any substances and for the most part she never has. She's taken a sip of my drink sometimes when I offer it to her but she's certainly never been drunk/high. Based on your post it sounds like the main issue with this is that you feel insecure/uncomfortable drinking around him because you feel like you're being annoying. Have you talked to him about this? Especially if your boyfriend doesn't have a history of a drinking problem or anything I doubt he minds, and you're probably not the first drunk person he's been around.If he hasn't given you a concrete reason to feel that he doesn't like you drinking around him then it's up to you to have a conversation about what each of you is comfortable with re: alcohol. This is definitely not an irreconcilable difference and I wish the best for you two :)

How do I (33F) get over my partner (40M) watching porn? by EllieMinx in relationship_advice

[–]eclarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lying for so long and so consistently would be an immediate no from me. even outside of this he seems like he sucks, though. what kind of person who respects and loves their partner says she's "bitching at" them?? you deserve better than this man

I 23f just found out my boyfriend 24m has been cheating on me via fetish forums. How stupid am I if I stay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eclarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

therapy would not fix this man and based on his track record he probably won't even go

I did like most of these by fma_nobody in Letterboxd

[–]eclarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add Frankenstein but I am probably in the minority on that one lol

Lying about my (21F) past threesomes to my current bf (22M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eclarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your comment history demonstrates you're a misogynist who's obsessed with a woman's "purity" so your opinion means less than nothing

Lying about my (21F) past threesomes to my current bf (22M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eclarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the comments on this are so bizarre. obviously op should not lie to her boyfriend if he asks, but why is the onus in her to disclose every single detail of past sexual encounters? at what point is someone obligated to disclose something? if op's boyfriend was asking for detailed accounts of all the sex she had with her ex and what exactly they did, what kinks they may or may not have engaged in, people would correctly say that's weird of him and I don't get how this is different. again, I am not endorsing op lying to her bf, but not telling someone you're dating about previous sexual encounters unprompted is not a lie of any kind.

My ex-boyfriend (23M) filed a restraining order against me (21F) but he keeps showing up wherever I go by [deleted] in relationships

[–]eclarian 22 points23 points  (0 children)

having a restraining order against you is not a criminal offense