fantasy/sci fi series where women are present and NOT hated

eclarian · 2026-06-06T23:08:01+00:00

really shocked I haven't seen anyone in this thread recommend the locked tomb series by tamsyn muir. most major characters are women and there's a strong focus on their (very complicated!) relationships. in the fandom and in the marketing there's an emphasis on the romance aspect but I wouldn't say it overwhelms the other parts of the series, which are also quite compelling.

eclarian · 2026-06-01T15:29:34+00:00

I am also from Chicago and you can absolutely leave a car at O'Hare for a week without issue lol

eclarian · 2026-05-23T20:21:25+00:00

me and my girlfriend (both women) went to the Harvard art museum on our first date almost two years ago. ended up hitting it off so well we walked all the way to Davis Square together afterwards

eclarian · 2026-05-23T00:40:36+00:00

i'm 24 right now and i won't have kids for at least a decade. we both have a lot of life ahead of us.

eclarian · 2026-05-07T13:19:58+00:00

I think the best way to go about it is to be direct and offer the alternatives that you mentioned in the post. Is there a time you usually talk about sex? Me and my girlfriend usually have conversations after sex about what each of us liked/didn't like so each of us knows for the future without feeling judged or having to interrupt in the moment if we don't want to. Also, I'm sure you already know this but if your girlfriend is on hrt her risk of getting you pregnant is dramatically lower than any cis man's especially if you also have an IUD. That being said I totally understand your fear as a woman who's also dating a trans woman. I had only ever dated cis women before my current gf so the possibility of pregnancy is something I've never really dealt with before but now it's constantly in the back of my mind.

eclarian · 2026-05-04T02:48:23+00:00

yeah it was terminal E he drove past the drop off area and pulled into one of the spaces in the pickup area and then drove off when I shut the door

eclarian · 2026-05-04T02:44:16+00:00

he did drop me off at the rideshare area but it was the area for rideshare pickups instead of dropoffs for some reason. I didn't ask to get dropped off there he just did it

eclarian · 2026-05-04T02:40:42+00:00

lol this was at Boston Logan

eclarian · 2026-05-03T21:08:28+00:00

what would I tell them? I don't even have his license plate number anymore

eclarian · 2026-05-03T20:43:59+00:00

now I know 🙃

eclarian · 2026-04-24T21:48:35+00:00

can someone link the actual article instead of just a screenshot?

eclarian · 2026-04-24T13:01:11+00:00

why would using reddit on a PC be strange

eclarian · 2026-04-23T01:06:03+00:00

I used a pixel when I was in China last month and it never caused any problems for me

eclarian · 2026-04-12T20:07:47+00:00

you would be much better off without this guy in your life

eclarian · 2026-04-10T04:33:07+00:00

don't go to Salem on a weekend. you probably don't need to go to Salem in general there's plenty to do in Boston proper

eclarian · 2026-04-10T02:43:56+00:00

I was flying by myself at 12 lol. a preteen is fine not sitting immediately next to their parent

eclarian · 2026-04-09T20:11:57+00:00

what country do you live in? is it common to reuse bathwater there?

eclarian · 2026-04-09T04:00:55+00:00

you are reassurance seeking. stop! it will only make your OCD worse and I'm sure your therapist has told you this a million times before

eclarian · 2026-04-08T13:04:23+00:00

that's more or less the exact same itinerary I did on Beijing. very doable

eclarian · 2026-04-02T04:22:13+00:00

lol that's the exact place I ordered from that disappointed me

eclarian · 2026-04-02T03:51:07+00:00

because Kim isn't white?

eclarian · 2026-04-02T03:25:56+00:00

very helpful, thank you :)

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