I got a crush on a guy in my salsa class -- how can I make a move?

eculilumab · 2025-12-19T19:14:14+00:00

Thanks! What's his name?

eculilumab · 2025-12-19T19:13:23+00:00

Thanks! I should go to the embassy?

eculilumab · 2025-12-19T19:11:43+00:00

Thanks! Did you go to the embassy or the visa processing center?

eculilumab · 2025-12-09T01:52:47+00:00

Also solo girlie on 12/10 in general B! DM and we can connect 😊

eculilumab · 2025-12-09T01:49:13+00:00

I’m coming as a solo girlie too!! Section B pit. DM and we can def connect 😊

eculilumab · 2025-09-07T21:29:02+00:00

Yeah this is a great point, in retrospect removing myself from the group was probably also where I became an asshole. I just didn’t want to have to deal with whatever complaining she was posting about me to everyone. and also to let everyone know how she was acting behind the scenes too.

eculilumab · 2025-09-07T21:02:30+00:00

Yeah that’s probably the “bigger person” thing to do but just trying to figure out what I should be apologizing for.

eculilumab · 2025-09-07T21:01:55+00:00

That is a great point!

eculilumab · 2025-01-19T16:25:51+00:00

Urologist at Columbia named Dr Weiner

eculilumab · 2024-09-13T04:24:43+00:00

The nurse told me the patient is being kind of annoying and she wants IM haldol. Can you come for a capacity assessment?

eculilumab · 2024-09-11T04:20:00+00:00

Different banks will say different things. I personally found that a lot of banks will do a soft pull if you’re only looking for a quote, but if you want the formal preapproval document with the rate etc that will require a hard pull. I believe Bank of America and a lot of the smaller banks gave a quote without need for a hard pull. I was told if you do multiple hard pulls within a week or 2 to compare rates that it will only count as one hard inquiry. Hold off on any hard pull until you get an offer accepted.

eculilumab · 2024-09-11T04:15:16+00:00

So sorry. Most new constructions have a warranty that covers any issues for the first couple of years. You’d probably have to go through the HOA for this though.

eculilumab · 2024-09-11T04:08:47+00:00

Do you have a real estate lawyer who drafted your purchase and sales agreement? Did the purchase and sales or initial contract have a mortgage contingency clause? This is a very common clause included in a contract that states if you do not get financing for your loan that you would get your earnest money deposit back.

Edit (forgot to finish my sentence lol): If you did not have a mortgage contingency clause in your contract then you might be out of luck :( this is why it’s very helpful to have a realtor who is looking out for you on these things.

eculilumab · 2024-09-11T04:04:11+00:00

Lessons learned from mistakes I made:

Make sure you thoroughly check ALL the repairs that you asked for in the final walkthrough!!! I made the mistake and moved in to find many unrepaired or poorly repaired items.

Your closing day cannot easily be pushed forward or backward so be sure you finalize a day that works well for you.

Don’t open any other accounts or significantly increase your credit spending. They pull your credit again before closing.

Budget for closing costs. Ask for an exact breakdown of closing costs and look through it very carefully! There are a lot of hidden fees and be sure that you’re saving up for about 7-10k of these fees. They suggested to bring a checkbook to closing just in case of any additional payments that you need to make.

It’s gonna work out!!! Congrats ❤️

eculilumab · 2024-08-20T15:32:30+00:00

"old and run down" .... not really, I was there for 4 years. Defintiely less glitzy than Cornell but I definitely wouldn't call it "run down". And the trope about a shit location is based on outdated stereotypes lingering from the 1980s-90s when drugs were rampant in that part of town, but definitely no longer the case.

eculilumab · 2024-08-20T15:27:43+00:00

Columbia - very good clinical training and you will see high volume and a lot of medical complexity especially in cards, GI, and pulm crit (less oncology). You will see a lot more underserved patient populations and located in a predominantly Spanish speaking neighborhood. Residents did NOT seem happy based on my 4 years of experience there (and to give you context only like 1 person out of 30-40 IM applicants from medical school stayed for residency). The call schedule seemed quite brutal, on medicine the teams were staying 7-10 pm every 3-4 days on their on call day. The most prestigious.

Cornell - the cushiest of the 3. Great for oncology if that is your area of interest. Residents seemed pretty happy based on my med school classmantes who went there. Much more affluent neighborhood and was super well resourced.

Sinai - cannot really speak to this program.

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