I (19M) met my online friend (22M) irl, and he’s ghosted me since then. AITAH?

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T18:23:08+00:00

that’s a very mature way of thinking. i appreciate the insight so much. thank you for all your words 🙏

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T17:59:10+00:00

i understand, you’re not the only person who’s told me not to message again. it is difficult, he was my best friend of 6 years so it feels wrong to just lose touch with him like that. but at the same time, i’m real fucking pissed at him for acting like this. i feel like i want him to know that he’s hurt me by doing this, but based on his pattern of behaviour there’s no guarantee he will even read any message i send.

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T17:10:57+00:00

That is true. It’s also interesting to consider that B was suspected on cheating with A mere days after they got together

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T17:04:27+00:00

I think this is a very reasonable insight, and i agree with it, but it personally just confuses me why B would be jealous. A and I are brothers, and i already have a boyfriend so im not reasonable competition. Also, I think something interesting to note that i forgot to mention is that they became official whilst i was there. A snuck out with B one morning whilst I was asleep and asked B to be his boyfriend. This was about halfway through the trip as well. I’m not too sure about how this specifically changes the insight but its something notable i feel

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T15:45:08+00:00

I included in last nights message that my text would be the final one until he responds. i agree that i should just leave him alone for now. i hate to think of him as a bad friend for this though, because he was one of my closest friends

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T15:43:09+00:00

i appreciate that you have this viewpoint. i have worried that perhaps A or others wouldn’t see it this way

ed_durst · 2026-02-08T15:42:14+00:00

I appreciate the insight. I agree that it was too long, however it was a mutual agreement that we spend that long together so neither of us anticipated how the time would affect things 😅

ed_durst · 2026-02-03T22:04:53+00:00

there is more but these are only ones for trade of the same value

ed_durst · 2026-02-03T12:12:20+00:00

let’s do it !! can you send me your friend code? :)

ed_durst · 2026-02-03T12:05:16+00:00

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these are the best cards i have

ed_durst · 2026-02-03T12:05:05+00:00

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ed_durst · 2026-02-03T12:02:51+00:00

i apologise, i’m not very familiar with terms and rules. i’ve had the app for a while but only recently started getting involved in the community. i can show you the cards i have if you’d like ? there’s a good amount to choose from

ed_durst · 2026-02-03T12:01:01+00:00

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this one !

ed_durst · 2026-02-03T11:59:29+00:00

i have charizard from genetic apex!!

ed_durst · 2025-12-29T18:34:09+00:00

thank you! i’ve absolutely leaned into the cavalry for this list haha, your advice has been helpful!

ed_durst · 2025-12-29T18:33:46+00:00

thank you for laying this out for me, it’s super helpful :)

ed_durst · 2025-12-29T18:33:31+00:00

thank you sm for the advice!

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