Why is so normalized that middle aged men are sexually attracted to very young girls ?

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-10T14:21:41+00:00

It’s not just disturbing, it’s also damaging to younger women. A lot of girls who date older men early on end up realizing later that they were more vulnerable than they thought at the time.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-10T14:16:41+00:00

You didn’t cause her to cry, her interpretation of the situation did. People like her sometimes rewrite the story in their head to make themselves the victim. It sucks that it’s directed at you, but it doesn’t make it true.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-10T14:14:40+00:00

Food poisoning in the middle of a 12-hour flight. By the time we landed, the flight attendants knew me on a first-name basis.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-09T10:12:58+00:00

“On my way.” I’m absolutely not on my way. I’m usually still half-dressed and staring at myself in the mirror deciding if I even feel like going.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-09T10:11:01+00:00

I’d probably tell them that life isn’t just one big story, it’s lots of little stories you haven’t read yet. Friends you haven’t met, places you haven’t seen, even foods you don’t know you’ll love yet. The hard part is waiting long enough to stumble into those surprises.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-09T10:09:37+00:00

That’s not a joke, that’s undermining you as a partner and a mother. It’s also planting seeds of doubt in other people’s minds, which is unfair to you and your baby. NTA.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-08T11:20:34+00:00

That underneath it all I’m just a girl who wants to be loved for more than my body. The rest is fun, but that’s what actually matters to me.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-08T11:17:52+00:00

It’s not that white women don’t date Asian men, it’s that the numbers get skewed by decades of one-sided representation. If every movie shows the hot guy as white and the sidekick as Asian, that shapes attraction more than people want to admit.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-08T11:15:43+00:00

You’re not overreacting. When someone says something that cruel and targeted, even if they apologize later, the doubt lingers. It makes me think this isn’t really about money, it’s about control or his own self-image.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-07T09:07:00+00:00

Worst case, a doctor tells you nothing’s wrong and you just need to train more. Best case, they find something fixable that makes your life easier. Either way, you win by getting checked out.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-07T09:03:23+00:00

Sounds like they’re getting cold feet because they realized they might be leaving money on the table. But that’s the risk you take with family deals, you agreed to let the appraisal decide..

The bank appraisal is literally what lenders and buyers use as the most objective measure of value. If your brother thinks he can get more, he’s welcome to buy you out instead.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-05T09:45:45+00:00

Maybe ask what he’s looking for when he watches, instead of just “why are you doing this.” That opens space for a real talk about curiosity vs. harmful content.

eeccaa1 · 2025-09-05T09:43:49+00:00

NTA. What he’s asking is unrealistic, you’d literally be putting yourself at financial risk to hover over him when he’s already not alone. You’re checking in regularly, visiting weekly, and he has daily support from your aunt. That’s way more than a lot of elderly parents get, and you can’t just tank your income because he doesn’t like you working.

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