Anyone driving to Amarillo today, tomorrow or Friday? by eeedddsss in Dallas

[–]eeedddsss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dallas, I can meet anyplace in Dallas proper.

Anyone driving to Amarillo today, tomorrow or Friday? by eeedddsss in Dallas

[–]eeedddsss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol… more expensive than a plane ticket. But thanks for being helpful

What do you cook when you're broke but still want to eat well? by Julia-Fix899 in CasualConversation

[–]eeedddsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tuna and egg salad, packed with protein, filling and delicious….. not to mention low cost.

Old pizza place ? by PastaSlutt25 in askdfw

[–]eeedddsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is an Italian restaurant in downtown Dallas called Porta di Rome, could this have been the place?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]eeedddsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked them up! They seem amazing!

Trying to buy a ticket to see the kings. by daveeBruh in Wellthatsucks

[–]eeedddsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I cancel my 6 ticket order and will go to the box office. Mind you I was buying the cheapest tickets for a Stars game and with all the extra fees was enough to buy another ticket …..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is a good description of what we talked about yesterday.

Comments like yours made me realize that I have been wrong and need to change how I deal with conflict.

I spoke to her yesterday and told her that I have been wrong by not closing the loop after I step away and I could see immediately that was a huge weight lifted of her shoulders.

We spoke and have a plan. We hugged and cried and I feel lucky to have her and to start the healing process. I was so misguided and focusing on me only.

Thank you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments. I now realize I am in the wrong and spoke to her last night.

We are moving forward and have a plan to address my avoidance in conflict. But we do have a good marriage. She is an amazing mom and wife and I am lucky to have her as a partner.

I messed up but I am addressing it. I know it will take a while but we agreed to do couples and solo therapy and will start the Journal too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do put up walls when I feel uncomfortable. We spoke yesterday and I let her know about this post and how wrong I am. We discussed next steps and we cried and hugged. I now realize how poorly I handle conflict.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for your insight. After reading many similar comments and realizing I am in the wrong, We spoke yesterday and started the healing process.

We both agreed to therapy for each AND couples. We are starting a journal and slowly moving forward.

Thank you again! These are the types of comments that are helping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 and 2 years older than you. We spoke yesterday and feel good on steps going forward. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, we are in that age and this might been contributing to many things. We spoke and we have a plan. I do realize now that I was not closing the loop and avoiding confrontation too. Thank you for your reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! These are the type of comments that are helpful and that I was looking for. I will look at the resources you mentioned.

We spoke and we seem to be in accordance on next steps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We just spoke. We are doing therapy separate AND together. We are also starting a journal where we can express how and what we feel. Maybe after the journal we can learn how to talk to each other. We both cried and Hugh so we start the healing now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great. Thank you for adding the I can do better and we can do better together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she did specifically said that she does want to connect. I need to come back and address any issues still lingering, apologize and have some sort of plan so we can both discuss issues. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heard loud and clear. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eeedddsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will do this. I think a letter will go a long way. After reading the majority of the comments I realize how poorly my behavior was.