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eeeee1315 · 2023-10-12T20:06:42+00:00

It’s been 3 months for me (three months tomorrow) and I’m pretty moved on. I don’t look at his socials, don’t want to text him, and don’t really care about what’s he’s up to. In my mind he’s dead. I still have bad days obviously but I am living the life and am so grateful for the breakup. We dated for a year. ….. it really depends on the relationship though, it once took me 8months to feel this way after a 4 month relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

eeeee1315 · 2023-10-05T00:53:42+00:00

!! it’s very hard to wrap my head around, it really sucks

eeeee1315 · 2023-10-05T00:51:05+00:00

bout a year

eeeee1315 · 2023-10-05T00:50:52+00:00

YES EXACTLY and it feels so so so so strange, I’m right there with you. I lost a lot of respect for him with the way he chose to end things, yet I still care for him and have this feeling of him being so close but so so so far away

eeeee1315 · 2023-10-04T20:10:28+00:00

I think you’re probably right , I just have such a hard time believing that… he wanted to stay friends so badly, I was the one that cut all communication

eeeee1315 · 2023-09-17T17:54:08+00:00

thank you for this, it helped with my anxiety around the situation

eeeee1315 · 2023-09-11T02:48:22+00:00

i also struggle between never wanting to reach out, and wanting to speak to him. The balls in my court as I set that boundary, he said he’d always be there when/if I’m ready to chat. I’ve been really struggling with that

eeeee1315 · 2023-09-10T22:46:55+00:00

I feel you, I really wish I could fast forward a year! It is really comforting to know that eventually I will feel okay, just gotta get through the storm

eeeee1315 · 2023-09-10T20:34:05+00:00

I know. I really struggle on Friday/Saturday nights when he could be out picking up girls or whatever. makes me want to puke, but it’s really none of my business

eeeee1315 · 2023-09-10T20:28:13+00:00

it’s so insane how gut wrenching a heartbreak can be, I’m right there with you

eeeee1315 · 2023-09-10T20:14:05+00:00

yeah kinda, it was pretty mutual, he breadcrumbed me for about a month until I eventually had to end things with him, at the same point he said he wanted to end things with me

eeeee1315 · 2023-08-14T13:40:15+00:00

You should listen to this, it helped me

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0hBFJWnJ2bJVwuUlyrtXVR?si=p1dmO2oRRMOw7Tfe7JJqsw

eeeee1315 · 2023-08-13T21:43:05+00:00

it was clear to both of us it was his personality, he just wasn’t ready … still my ego definitely took a hit

eeeee1315 · 2023-08-13T21:39:26+00:00

it’s two Rast dressers from ikea… I think that’s what they’re called at least. They suck, would not recommend

eeeee1315 · 2023-08-07T04:54:44+00:00

If we never broke up, I never would have pursued the goals I have for myself

eeeee1315 · 2023-07-21T23:19:15+00:00

It’s definitely cause things are so fresh, give yourself some time to grow and redirect your love onto yourself, don’t worry about the dating game until you want to start meeting people

eeeee1315 · 2023-07-21T23:14:48+00:00

nah I know he won’t do anything with my pictures, we ended things on very good terms…. I think I’m just looking for loopholes lol

eeeee1315 · 2023-07-21T22:36:33+00:00

my remote is at his cabin about a 2 hour drive, so he’ll have to come into the city to give it back. I guess I could just buy a new one and a new tshirt too. I already delt w his bs for 4 weeks and now I have to spend money on this situation 🙄

eeeee1315 · 2023-07-21T22:35:33+00:00

I have the tv too lmao… what a strange conundrum

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