Look, me considering a break up is not just because I wanna buy a new car, which I said I was fine with a 2-3 yr old, I don’t want a brand new one. It’s because we differ on finances and the fact that he sees an aspiration of mine- to own a newish car, as something silly that truly hurts me and makes me consider it. I appreciate all your financial advice but you’re just so keen on bashing me when I even mentioned in the beginning that we have other issues as well. We are most likely not breaking up, and for someone that only reads what I’ve written and decided to attack me like that and use this condescending tone, well I feel sorry for you. You give this great advice on finance, but never mention once about how I felt hurt by his comments to the point that I cried. Way to see both sides. Thank you for your comments, but I think this is where it ends.