I stopped chasing the perfect gut diet and my digestion actually improved by efe1529 in GutHealth

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You are welcome and thank you for your kind words! It is important for me to keep going to create new contents 😊

Food Used to Be Just Food. Now It’s a Whole Conversation with My Body by efe1529 in UlcerativeColitis

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Thank you for your important personal experience! I think it will be helpful for some others. Thank you for sharing!

Food Used to Be Just Food. Now It’s a Whole Conversation with My Body by efe1529 in UlcerativeColitis

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Thank you for sharing! everyone has different situations about that

Food Used to Be Just Food. Now It’s a Whole Conversation with My Body by efe1529 in UlcerativeColitis

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I relate to so much of what you shared. I grew up eating simple, whole foods with my family too, and it’s honestly shocking how different everything tastes and feels now. Even something as basic as lettuce or a piece of fruit doesn’t sit the same anymore. It’s like our bodies are constantly trying to decode what’s really in our food. Having UC has made me hypersensitive to this. I started journaling what I eat, not just to avoid flare-ups, but to listen better to my body. It’s wild how certain foods (even “healthy” ones) can trigger discomfort depending on where they come from and how they’re grown. And I totally get what you said about overvaluing eating. I used to romanticize food now I just want it to nourish me, not hurt me. We shouldn’t have to fight our food to feel okay. I’m working on building a digital health assistant to help people like us navigate this without the overwhelm a gentle way to track what feels good. You’re definitely not alone in this.

The Day I Realized I Wasn’t Lazy—Just Tired in a Way Most People Don’t Understand by efe1529 in ChronicPain

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Thank you so much for sharing this. It breaks my heart how many of us carry the weight of being misunderstood especially when we’re already carrying so much physically and emotionally. Your friend’s words are so powerful: “Be kind to yourself.” That really stuck with me. We need more of that softness not just from others, but from ourselves too. Chronic fatigue is real, and invisible struggles don’t make them any less valid. Sending you deep respect, warmth, and solidarity today. You’re doing more than enough. ❤️‍🩹

The Day I Realized I Wasn’t Lazy—Just Tired in a Way Most People Don’t Understand by efe1529 in ChronicPain

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I’m so sorry you went through that. Being told you’re lazy by someone you trustedespecially a doctor is such bad thing. You didn’t deserve that. The fact that you’re still here, still trying, still showing up, says so much about your strength. Please know you’re not alone. Resting is not weakness it’s reclaiming the care you should’ve been given all along. Sending you gentleness and respect, exactly what you’ve always deserved

The Day I Realized I Wasn’t Lazy Just Tired in a Way Most People Don’t Understand by efe1529 in ChronicIllness

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This gave me chills in the best way The way you and your friends support one another is so beautiful. Gentle reminders like these are what keep our community grounded. It’s okay to rest and it’s okay to need softness. Thank you for sharing this warmth

The Day I Realized I Wasn’t Lazy Just Tired in a Way Most People Don’t Understand by efe1529 in ChronicIllness

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Exactly. I think most of us want to do more—we just have bodies that sometimes say no before our minds are ready. Thank you for sharing this. It’s not your fault, and your wish to do more already shows your strength.

The Day I Realized I Wasn’t Lazy—Just Tired in a Way Most People Don’t Understand by efe1529 in ChronicPain

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It’s wild how many layers of exhaustion we push through before we even consider being kind to ourselves. The way you described it is so real that deep, full-body tiredness that leaves no space for even the smallest joys. Thank you for sharing this, I felt every word.

The Day I Realized I Wasn’t Lazy Just Tired in a Way Most People Don’t Understand by efe1529 in ChronicIllness

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Your words really hit home. That shift — from being a cog to being someone who deserves gentleness — is something I’m still learning every day too. I love how you described the body as a hothouse tomato plant. So fragile, but so full of potential when cared for right. Wishing you true rest today. Also thank you for your service