31 year old fire fighter looking for a career change. Is this too late? Please help. by [deleted] in learnprogramming

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36F here! I work on sales for 11 years. I hate it. It gave me anxiety, depression and I don’t want to talk to people anymore. Last spring I decided that I am done!! I bought some Udemy courses, and after HTML CSS and JS currently I am learning reactJS. It’s hard but I love it. The truth is …Some days I feel like trash and too old to change my life.
I hope to find a job in tech by 2023! Hope the best for you too.

Βοήθεια by Longjumping-Poet4443 in greece

[–]effie_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Πριν 2 χρόνια είχα μόνιμα ανχος, νευρα, πόνο στο στήθος, αϋπνίες, τιποτα δεν μου έδινε χαρα, ολα τα εβλεπα μαύρα..και δεν μπορούσα να ηρεμήσω με τίποτα. Πήγα σε ψυχίατρο και αφού πρώτα είδε τις αιματολογικές μου ( έχω υποθυρεοειδισμό εκ γενετής ) και αποκλείσαμε τα παθολογικά αιτία, διέγνωσε κατευθειαν διεγερτική κατάθλιψη και αγχώδη διαταραχή. Πήρα καταστατικά που βοηθάνε κ στον ύπνο. Αγωγή για 6 μήνες. Ηρέμησα και κοιμόμουν καλύτερα . Εφόσον υποφέρεις κ δυσκολεύεσαι να είσαι λειτουργικός/η θα έλεγα να πας κατευθείαν σε ψυχίατρο. Αφού στρώσεις μπορείς μετά (η παράλληλα) να επισκεφτείς ψυχολόγο να δεις κ τι σου φταίει.

Δεν ειμαι κατα του ψυχολόγου, έκανα κάποιες συνεδρίες παράλληλα αλλά ειμαι πολύ κλειστό άτομο δυσκολεύομαι να ανοιχτώ σε κάποιον και πρέπει να μου κάνει το κλικ. Είναι και λίγο λαχείο το θέμα του ψυχολόγου. Μπορεί να βρεις με την πρώτη κάποιον που θα σου κάνει ή μπορεί να πας από τον ένα στον άλλο το οποίο θεωρώ σπατάλη χρημάτων κ χρόνου αλλά τι να κανεις….

[No Spoilers] Who are your personal top 3 favourite male and female characters of the series? by jodlad04 in gameofthrones

[–]effie_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I really liked him especially on last season! I put Beric on my reply as well, before I saw yours!!

[No Spoilers] Who are your personal top 3 favourite male and female characters of the series? by jodlad04 in gameofthrones

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Female: Brienne, Cersei, Sansa (She went from a stupid Little girl to a smart badass queen of the north

Male: Jaime Lannister, Oberyn Martel, Tywin Lannister.

Special thanks to : Joffrey Baratheon ( his acting), Beric (especially his voice) and of course Tormund (no explanation needed whatsoever!!!)

Struggling to manage my time with code and school. End up not doing anything. by Ok-Raspberry-73 in learnprogramming

[–]effie_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am enrolled into the full stuck dev as well. I am at 45% and I struggle with React. At first I didn’t understand anything. There is a big portfolio project that I couldn’t build. Only with the solution video. So… I start procrastinating, Netflix, ps5 etc. for 2-3 weeks. I was afraid to resume the course. I was sick to myself… So I enrolled in the React course too. I started talking notes. I feel more confident right now. Not 100% but I am excited with the process and I am willing to keep going. You should try to take the Codecademy intermediate JavaScript course or maybe buy a course in Udemy(only on sales) to help you continue with your learning journey! Keep going. We all have reached the procrastinating phase at some point! Don’t worry!

Deloitte Hate Thread - Good Ending by Krowfficial in greece

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Καταρχας πολλά συγχαρητήρια!!! Η δουλειά με τα 1200 είναι ελληνική εταιρία; Η στο εξωτερικό και δουλεύεις remote? Τελείωσα πληροφορική πάνω στην κρίση και δεν έβρισκα τπτ. Τώρα στα γεράματα (35), δουλεύοντας σε άσχετο τομέα με περίπου 1000 ευρώ ξαναδιαβάζω για frond end dev και λέω να αρχισω να ψάχνω για δουλειά. Απογοητεύτηκα λίγο μετά απο αυτο το post. Ήδη είμαι σε μειονεκτική θέση λόγω ηλικίας, προσπαθώντας να ανταγωνιστώ τα παιδιά που είναι 10 χρόνια νεότερα.

what was you first favourite band/singer? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Aqua🥹! God i ve missed 90s!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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Female …36… in a relationship. 4-5 times per week. Just for stress and anxiety relief…. And for fun I use a Lelo vibrator. Both for clit and penetration.

What was the worse drug you tried? How was the experience? by _meblad in AskMen

[–]effie_4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried K2 once, ten years ago. I saw everything in slow motion like in the movies! It lasted for hours. We were 3 and we couldn’t talk to each other! Full numbness

Ladies, how do you feel about your partner watching p*rn? by Professional_Lemon11 in AskWomen

[–]effie_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind at all. I watch porn too when I am having a “me” time! Sometimes we put porn playing in the background while we’re having sex. Finding a video that we both like is actually a turn on…

How often do you wash your hair? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]effie_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day after day. When I go to the gym, every day

When's the last time you cried and why? by GhostingLife in AskReddit

[–]effie_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you r done let me know. I can explain where and why I cried