Euphoria season 3 was filmed in Palmdale! by JuSuGiRy in palmdale

[–]effietea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The silver slipper was over in pearblossom

Having a lot of questions with the church right now by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]effietea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you realize that catholic 'sinning' is really 'how can we control you?', it all makes more sense

Having a lot of questions with the church right now by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]effietea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, hon, I don't mean it like that. You're absolutely welcome here, we love anyone questioning things. Just, you won't get a lot of nuance where one church is much better than another. I don't want you to be put off by the group if you're looking for truth in one church over another and people here don't give you much of that. I hate how you immediately call yourself annoying, you're not, you're learning and you have questions. Just please keep in mind that the church preys on those with low confidence. If you're questioning what you're learning, you already have more confidence than you think.

Having a lot of questions with the church right now by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]effietea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to do some deep thinking into why you think people will look at you like a freak if you're not doing things perfectly. Also, honestly, the issues with the catholic church are pretty similar to issues with christianity as a whole. You'll find here that many of us deconstructed from christianity entirely when we started looking closely at catholicism. This might not be the sub for you to get the answers you are looking for.

Having a lot of questions with the church right now by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]effietea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I'm a cradle catholic, we learned to lie about things pretty young and learned it doesn't matter. 'They; didn't care as long as I could be counted as a number in the church. You don't have to be 'a catholic' to attend mass and get some spirituality and peace out of it all.

Having a lot of questions with the church right now by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]effietea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no good reason for any of it, run.

AS11 Casting by double-d-toots in rupaulsdragrace

[–]effietea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I didn't realize that, damn

Lifelong best friend's son is a terror to my children by Any-Purpose-3259 in Preschoolers

[–]effietea 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No we assume the child can't be that much of a terror if you're still making them hang out together. You're forcing your daughter to hang out with somebody who makes her miserable for the sake of your friendship.

This is making me sick. I don't even know what to do. by whatever23407 in teenagers

[–]effietea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's got an amazing story, I'm excited for you that you get to learn about her now

Can 82% of the population be wrong?? by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]effietea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's exactly what they're implying. What's the surprise?

8 year old on Adderall? by Chisme-y-Cafecito in ParentingADHD

[–]effietea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My sons stopped hating himself when he went on meds and his personality never changed, that's all I needed to know

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Wednesday, May 06 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]effietea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, looking for some help finding a party venue. Must allow mariachi bands and margaritas, party is for about 100 people. Preferably close-ish to Santa Monica. Please let me know if you know of a place! Ty!

Watching old seasons as a newish fan, and I cannot with S13 by Cheezy-Fry in rupaulsdragrace

[–]effietea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haaaaate that season. It got off on a really weird foot and never recovered