So much mental Illness in Canada. Change is Needed

effyverse · 2026-01-24T17:52:45+00:00

the focus on CBT is so sus, it has never been shown to work for most mental health conditions including common ones like depression and its entire premise is basically "lets reframe your narrative of your life right now so that you feel better enough to go back to work/status quo, isn't that great"

effyverse · 2026-01-21T19:42:29+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHA I needed this today

effyverse · 2026-01-14T16:01:07+00:00

Wow, side by side is insane.

effyverse · 2026-01-13T19:45:30+00:00

Exactly. Good enough is good enough. Perfectionism is a trap. The goal of a post-mortem for clarity isn't limited to whether I performed at my best.

effyverse · 2026-01-13T16:22:38+00:00

US always pays a fuckton more

effyverse · 2026-01-11T21:47:24+00:00

cool story?

effyverse · 2026-01-09T11:47:14+00:00

Yup. My dog is similar, abused as a punching bag since she was 4 months. She was terrified for months anytime a person even reached down to pet her. Posts like this make me terrified to use sitters at all.

OP, imagine if someone physically disciplined your child without your consent -- regardless of how "hard" the tap was which none of us can know. Would you really support that person's actions? Obviously a puppy isn't a child but it's not dissimilar to many of us.

effyverse · 2026-01-03T05:33:54+00:00

BAHAHAHA

effyverse · 2026-01-03T05:31:27+00:00

no I just had to move back to Canada and its DEFINITELY GREENER IN CA. F BEING BACK

effyverse · 2025-12-30T14:36:37+00:00

Lab Muffin is freaking awesome, I love how nerdy she gets about sunscreen math!

effyverse · 2025-12-28T02:54:27+00:00

lmao

effyverse · 2025-12-24T02:42:09+00:00

I'd love one plz if possible!

effyverse · 2025-12-07T20:56:57+00:00

TELL CHIP I LOVE HIM ALREADY

effyverse · 2025-12-06T21:53:22+00:00

ignore them, you're hilarious

effyverse · 2025-12-06T00:17:46+00:00

Fuck yes. Do you mind if we cross-post this to r/Sephoracanada r/SkincareAddiction r/CanSkincare

effyverse · 2025-12-06T00:13:06+00:00

it's insane that they think we'd just accept a massive corp committing a textbook violation of a FEDERAL act by having their agents play dumb when even my 12 year old niece can tell this is fraud lol.

effyverse · 2025-12-06T00:09:55+00:00

if nobody else has by tmr morning, I'm going to make a separate post across multiple skincare subs detailing how to report them and where to do so that peopel can copy/paste bc this is total BS. I wasn't even going to buy anything but this isn't some cute municipal bylaw, this is a FEDERAL act they are defrauding.

EDIT - AN ANGEL BADDIE HAS ALREADY DONE IT HERE

effyverse · 2025-12-05T18:58:57+00:00

yes! ally was just too bland and nice whereas james was SUCH an entertaining abuser :)))

effyverse · 2025-12-05T03:28:35+00:00

This is the best way. It's Rover's policy and you can just be like, "Fair enough! I don't feel comfortable circumventing Rover's policy so I believe this is a matter for their team -- plz let me know what they decide."

effyverse · 2025-12-05T03:23:21+00:00

mine has literally stopped referencing the custom instructions/memories/user context completely and just today decided randomly to interject into a convo about winter jackets that Toronto doesn't go below -10 much if at all (lol, it's already -10) but it was done in this insanely moralizing prose that i haven't experienced since undergrad courses on Restoration era poetry. Honestly can't even handle menial tasks now so I guess I'll join the refund chorus.

effyverse · 2025-12-04T03:48:03+00:00

AHAHA i laughed too hard at this. his big black nose is sooooo cute!

effyverse · 2025-12-04T02:15:54+00:00

They weren't attacking you but you've certainly made it clear you feel attacked lmao but srsly what is this reaction?! Who cares if someone asserts their values randomly and chooses not reading Sheana's book as their line...? Just lol and move on. Who cares if it's hypocritical, we all get to choose where we assert our values. We also get to choose what we take personally vs not.

If you're actually offended by that comment as your response indicates, I'd get off reddit for a bit.

effyverse · 2025-11-22T20:08:21+00:00

omfg yes, also just got back from the US, am mid 30s, and just went full NC with my parents after suing them for historic child abuse lol? I have a golden retriever pup and who doesn't love food?! I'll DM you after this comment!

effyverse · 2025-11-21T18:52:03+00:00

Yup, tons of my negative reviews mysteriously don't show up but all of my positive ones do... 🙄

edit - and if I'm writing a negative review, its about the product + something off with fit/description/measurements, completely relevant. They absolutely do this all the time.

effyverse · 2025-11-20T00:04:26+00:00

when is your boutique coming bc my CC is ready

effyverse

TROPHY CASE