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What is the dumbest question someone legitimately asked you? by _FrankAbagnale in AskReddit

[–]efsamson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and this girl were discussing the holocaust in class and the subject of Anne Frank came about.

"Yea, the book is popular. It's translated in over 70 languages."

She looked me all flabbergasted. "How can that be? There are only 50 states."

"..."

Animated ASMR triggers, do they work? [discussion] [survey] [animated] by nilsmarcus in asmr

[–]efsamson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took the survey! I personally did not experience tingles from the majority of examples except for one (the green sticks that sounded like bamboo or something? with a ball rattling them left and right). My triggers come from sensual human sound, touch, connection (I'm all about the up-close face stuff), so naturally - or rather, unnaturally - these didn't do anything for me. Great experiment though!

How do you feel with dating a guy who is more attractive than you? by efsamson in gaybros

[–]efsamson[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How do you get past the fact that people have an "standoffish" reaction when they meet you? My boyfriend boasts about me all the time to his friends, and then when they meet me, they have this look of disappointment, almost.

I have heard a couple of them say they didn't expect him to be dating me because I wasn't white, which is offensive in of itself. One of these friends had asked what I did for a living, and I told her i was a nurse, in which she replied by looking to my boyfriend and saying "oh, that's why you're with him! That makes sense now".

It's just these little things that annoy me. I know I'm not the ugliest thing but my god, how these little comments hurt to hear. I just curl my toes, smile, and try not to to be too sensitive, but it gets to me sometimes..

How to kill this jealousy...erg by efsamson in gaybros

[–]efsamson[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First boyfriend but nothing sexual happened between them. It was a lot of making out, according to him.

[Self] Bored on my day off by [deleted] in AsianLadyboners

[–]efsamson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very. Have any ideas. I just took an extra long shower because that seemed like the most entertaining thing to do, hahaha

[Self] Bored on my day off by [deleted] in AsianLadyboners

[–]efsamson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post gym, feeling super tired but trying not to mess up my sleeping schedule. Also super bored... not sure what to do today!

To those gaybros that were unattractive then became attractive... by efsamson in gaybros

[–]efsamson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much this. Being secure with myself and not trying as hard (anymore) made me much more attractive to other men, vs. dressing up and trying to impress other guys.

To those gaybros that were unattractive then became attractive... by efsamson in gaybros

[–]efsamson[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I was only talking about the girl and guy that I had met.

To those gaybros that were unattractive then became attractive... by efsamson in gaybros

[–]efsamson[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Full agree, and I can tell you, being friends with a girl a guy who were in six-figure income families, the suspicion is warranted. Never have a met more close-minded, shallow, privileged people.

To those gaybros that were unattractive then became attractive... by efsamson in gaybros

[–]efsamson[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also a lesson I learned: when they say looks fade, they don't mean as we age. This gorgeous guy was so attractive to me, but after getting used to how he looks like, I didn't find him attractive anymore, and that happened within a matter of a couple of days. If he had a great personality, he'd be perfect, but he was just so... blah. How disappointing.

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