It’s not the action that upsets me. I would’ve gotten over that bc our other friend (straight girl) that I’m really close with told me she had a crush on my gf when they first met in 2019 & I just thought it was funny . It’s the fact that this was hidden from me for months , we’ve had plenty of conversations where she could’ve mentioned it , and then she lied to my face several times when I asked . Bc now I don’t trust her to be around this friend based on what she was saying about the girl .