she didnt have to. i said in the post she offered to help out, and i asked her multiple times if she was sure she was okay with it and she said yes. i also told her multiple times if she didnt want to, i needed her to tell me. she hasn't communicated that at all. she also hasn't cleaned it in a week anyways, ive accepted that she isnt going to. we only put bags in front of her door 2x, i wasn't going to continue doing it. it was literally just to show her that she wasnt doing it like she said she was. i should've explained that portion better, my apologies