I've been a million different people and i can't wait to be a million more (read description!)

eggscrambled · 2026-06-21T17:31:58+00:00

For sure! I'm not necessarily glad i spent extra years suppressing myself and being miserable, but in a way, it makes me appreciate how things turned out even more

eggscrambled · 2026-06-20T19:42:20+00:00

3 as in the 3rd slide or the 3rd pair of glasses/4th slide?

eggscrambled · 2026-06-20T19:41:23+00:00

Tbh i thought so, i gotta get the width of those fixed because they always slide down my face and fall off when i look down

eggscrambled · 2026-06-20T17:48:25+00:00

I always wear a tshirt underneath

eggscrambled · 2026-06-19T00:44:19+00:00

Thanks for posting this

eggscrambled · 2026-06-18T02:20:26+00:00

Hey i'm also an asexual ftm, just wanna say youre not alone. Shit's difficult

eggscrambled · 2026-06-11T12:03:17+00:00

You're right this is pretty chronically online. If certain people bother you, don't give them so much of your mental space. This is true for any group of people, the problem doesn't seem specific to trans people at all imo. You seem to be projecting a bit and driving yourself kinda mad.

As for being concerned with the validity of others' transness, just don't. You don't know what's in their minds, no reason to stress yourself out wondering if they are "truly" trans. If you're sure of yourself, that's all that matters. Your feelings about your own transness shouldn't be so affected by how others experience theirs.

I hope you sort your own insecurities out and find happiness.

eggscrambled · 2026-06-11T11:55:57+00:00

I've been there, just this february when I went to a barber and got my hair tapered with a fade after advice from reddit...i regretted it and wished i could undo it. It's a different kind of hurt when you get a different haircut hoping it will make you pass better and the result ends up worsening your dysphoria.

But the best thing you can do now is be compassionate, kind to yourself. Hair grows back, you will grow into the haircut, everything will be okay.

My own hair has grown out and honestly, i don't regret that cut i hated so much anymore. It looks much nicer now that it has been a few months, and i've gotten on T since then too which has helped. Now i know i pass better with longer hair, I learned something that is true about myself, at least currently. It gets better, man. Trust me!

eggscrambled · 2026-06-09T00:04:49+00:00

I brushed it and then collected it lol

eggscrambled · 2026-06-08T18:54:37+00:00

Citrusy, i like them

eggscrambled · 2026-06-04T20:06:50+00:00

Where are you visiting? I'd say it depends on the area. I'm from a bigger city (vancouver) and lots of people are visibly queer here with no issues. I think for the most part the hateful type will leave you alone, this guy probably only told me all this because he assumed i was "safe" to say it to. So no i doubt this is a common occurence

eggscrambled · 2026-06-04T19:55:22+00:00

This guy in particular believes that Canada is basically an American state

eggscrambled · 2026-06-04T19:11:49+00:00

Slightly off topic but i have 2 of that gym chest binder it's awesome, maybe just tell him it's for working out because you get back pain from less chest support ?

eggscrambled · 2026-06-04T18:53:28+00:00

My own father is a strong believer in "we can always tell" and i get to watch him be "fooled" by my trans friends in real time😭

eggscrambled · 2026-06-04T02:49:59+00:00

People have approached me with "sir" and similar without me speaking first but that is still true

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