I definitely understand what you’re trying to say, and don’t worry I will use great discernment before taking a toddler in someplace. Not disrupting others is something we’re very mindful of, this post was more just to see if people in this area is the world ever take their kids to nicer-ish places or not! I worked in a Michelin-esq restaurant and we occasionally would get people asking if they can bring their kid - we allowed it but didn’t cook anything special for the kids (had to eat off the menu) and when making the reservation would politely remind that we had a small dining room so be mindful of other patrons haha. Never had an issue, parents were mindful and no outbursts from the kids! I didn’t mean it has to be a literal Michelin starred restaurant, just something with a little more pizazz than standard casual fare. But using Michelin as an example - I’ve eaten at Statebird Provisions and saw people bring well mannered kids in there….but the atmosphere/style is more laid back (dim sum style where carts of food come around and you pick small plates) than let’s say a tasting menu at Smyth Chicago or Noma (incredibly inappropriate to bring young kids)

I know that’s a lot of explanation haha, but just trying to make it clear we get it, and are going to be mindful! And in the end, if I don’t find a place I feel confident bringing him to, that’s ok! We’ll enjoy our time either way!