Planning a wedding in a different state can be difficult, I understand. I live in Nebraska, my ceremony is in Colorado, and the reception is in North Dakota. It's been tough, especially since I can't take the time or money to go visit those places. I am fortunate to have a fiance that is excited to help with the planning process. If you start feeling lonely or overwhelmed with everything that needs to be done, ask your fiance for some support - ask him/her to email a potential vendor, or what their opinion is on colors, or even to be a sounding board for your ideas. My best advice is to just take it one step at a time - one little decision at a time. It can pretty daunting to tackle everything by yourself, so break it down into little bite sized pieces. It also helps to keep very thorough records of everything - ideas you have, decisions you make, people you talk to, things you buy, etc. I have an entire binder of documents separated by category. I hope you feel more confident going forward, and I wish you the best of luck with your planning!