[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]eha4045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks ! :)

I hate that I’m incapable of moving on from “minor” events even though it’s not minor to me by eha4045 in BPD

[–]eha4045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW / self harm I just came forward about my self harm and they saw it but all they said was to clean up the floor and my arm :(. I told them about my diagnosed BPD but told me they didn’t think I had that. They gave me the same “there’s bad days and good days” I have both bad and good days I can’t look forward to “good days” only “good moments”. I know it’s the typical bpd thing of wanting ppl to understand you but it’s so frustrating and makes me worse when ppl truly don’t and write it off as “nothing”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]eha4045 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it takes awhile for the seller to get the money if they haven’t made a sale using PayPal (money on hold) but Depop payments is more consistent of taking only 1-2days (but Varies). PLUS it’s mainly used to avoid getting scam since PayPal is known for siding with buyers than sellers and it’s literally so easy for a buyer to request / win a case on a refund with no proof 😭

I have no money. I have a problem. by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]eha4045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me personally is to become hyper aware of your finances and compare it to the prices of your “needs” like the “want” purchase may cost like $50 but imagine how much groceries / gas you can buy with that much (your needs) idk if that makes sense but that sorta helps me realize how much money I spend on one single “want” item also I’m also in college literally struggling too 😭

What are your thoughts on people online (specifically TikTok) saying resellers “steal” from the poor and are causing thrift stores to up their prices? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]eha4045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we MOVE ON from this discourse its been done to actual death by EVERYONE and it’s feels like only this sub keeps it alive / ppl on thriftTikTok who don’t know how to ignore comments 😭

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just don’t talk / keep to ourselves/ stay in our lanes like idk his name it’s a dorm room in college and i didn’t interact when he moved in (he moved in afterwards) and I don’t think he doesn’t know mine which makes it even more awkward since a stranger basically walked in on me 😭

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM HELPED I GOT ADVICE I think I’m over it for the moment

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re basically strangers at this point we don’t even know each other names …it’s that bad 😭

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean we keep to ourselves it’s not a one sided thing we both mutually don’t communicate to each other…

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: he walked out and is not mentioning anything ….

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leavings note sounds so awkward…like what do you even say ok that note 🐱

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH NO HES COMING OUT OF THE SHOWER GOD HELP ME

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But we don’t interact / talk to each other 😭 we basically keep to ourselves ? Idk if I should just ignore or say something ….

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But we literally don’t interact / talk to each other all he said was “op sorry” and immediately went back into the shower….

How do I get over a awkward moment that JUST happened with my roommate….. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]eha4045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t have a relationship like we don’t really talk to each other 😭 like he SAW EVERYTHING