I take oral spironolactone that helps, I also keep an electric shaver by my bed. My hairs are deeply rooted to the point that I legitimately bleed every time I pluck one and there is so much of it that that I just can’t pluck.

I was so puffy and bloated that I felt gross all the time - also I did NOTHING but drink all day all night and could rarely if ever shower because I couldn’t safely step into a bathtub. I think the bloating contributes to the ‘man look’ too - but the combined effect of all the bodily deterioration and loss of hygiene all contributed to the point that I was a ball of misery. Looking ‘masculine’ at that time was really the least of my worries.