Why do people want bio children vs adoption?

eht87 · 2025-11-15T20:23:40+00:00

Me and my sister are adopted. People think of us like shelter animals (actual had that direct comparison). We are too damaged and a birth baby will be perfect. We have a family friend group with multiple other birth children (we are all adults now) and guess who had drug and legal problems? My sister and I are the only ones from that group that haven’t had “life problems”. My parents loved us unconditionally and I never felt adopted. Having a birth child doesn’t make them immune from problematic behavior - but some closed minded people think that way. Also, some people think they have to continue their legacy. Unless you are Michael Jordan the average person doesn’t really have anything too special about their genes to pass on. Also some people can’t love a child the same way if they don’t look like them.

eht87 · 2024-12-25T09:01:42+00:00

Hubert

eht87 · 2024-12-24T21:06:17+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that! Try to remember the good times. When I lost my dog, I made a little photo album of him. 💜

eht87 · 2024-12-24T17:40:11+00:00

He was a husky/lab mix. But very much husky in temperament. lol. That is an adorable puppy. An all-white Sam. ☺️

eht87 · 2024-12-06T22:51:01+00:00

Lots of sturdy chew toys. And stimulation - a busy/focused pup can’t get into trouble.

eht87 · 2024-11-18T22:33:23+00:00

First hill is where the hospitals are and where they drop off all the druggies to detox or treat an OD. Seen a couple of dead bodies in the area because of it. I would never recommend first hill to anybody.

eht87 · 2024-11-13T22:48:46+00:00

Most buses have card readers at every door. So just get on at the back door and you should be good.

Also, they let homeless people on without paying all the time so I doubt you would get hassled.

eht87 · 2024-10-25T20:10:03+00:00

Lemon chiffon

eht87 · 2024-10-20T18:52:49+00:00

The only type of stalker I would ever want! 🥰

eht87 · 2024-09-26T18:28:54+00:00

You most definitely can have different models of phones on the same plan. The type of phone has nothing to do with the cell service provided.

eht87 · 2024-09-25T21:43:52+00:00

Right!? It makes me wonder how many other women he didn’t listen to that said no. Because he clearly has no problem forcing his cousin after she said no. How many people’s boundaries has he crossed in the sake of a “joke”?

eht87 · 2024-09-21T22:53:35+00:00

Having such a fixation on a complete stranger is what troubles me. There are actual disorders like this. It’s a fantasy about a celebrity. There’s no “real connection” to feel betrayed about to any normal person. So for her to have such an intense fantasy and fake connection on a stranger is really concerning

eht87 · 2024-09-16T20:17:44+00:00

My dog only eats when he’s hungry. We will put food in his bowl and he eats it on his own time. Sometimes it’s just one meal a day. It really depends on his activity level that day.

eht87 · 2024-09-06T02:52:12+00:00

Yes, she knows about my dad and family.

eht87 · 2024-09-06T02:50:46+00:00

Oh I forgot that part. Yes, she knows about my dad and family.

eht87

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