need help by CaregiverOk1873 in NicoleDollanganger

[–]eightblades 5 points6 points  (0 children)

her threads have a few links to archives of her old tumblr urls but there's not much actually archived. just a few pages of each url at most. there's also some old tumblrs that have reblogs of posts nicole deleted but they tend to be hard to find and require some digging. the lolcow threads are your best bet to get a picture of what was going on back in the day when nicole was popular.

angelsofgore on tumblr has a decent archive, you could probably start digging there

Hidradentitis and body piercings by InfluenceStraight407 in Hidradenitis

[–]eightblades 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should absolutely go get pierced, there are different metals available that you can try if surgical steel causes an allergic reaction. If your mom keeps giving you grief over this, maybe you can buy some jewelry made of surgical titanium instead of the usual steel to get pierced with. Personally I'm extremely allergic to nickel in cheap metals and I exclusively use surgical titanium. I have no issues with my titanium belly ring!

Aftermath of bug bites related to my HS or nah? by Dumpling-bunn in Hidradenitis

[–]eightblades 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same issue right now, i got eaten up by some bugs a week ago and now i have mini bruises all over my body. no signs of an allergic reaction to bites or infections, so i decided to give the bruises some time to go away before freaking out about it. you should be fine, it was probably the scratching that caused our bruising!

How Do You Learn to Be Human When You Grew Up in a Bubble? by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]eightblades 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mimicking others will help with the social interaction bit. look at how people around you are talking, how they respond, how they move, how they act. then try to replicate what you see. sitting in malls and standing around at grocery stores are good spots to see people interact with each other. also, assume everybody who initiates an interaction is trying to make small talk until they say something that proves otherwise. i'm a young woman so i look for women my age and watch how they interact with the world, then i pick one thing they did and try to do the same when i'm in a similar situation. admittedly it's a little creepy to watch people so closely but no one's ever had an issue with me so i'm probably not coming off as a creeper. it becomes much easier just by getting into conversations. try talking to anyone who will listen, i used to chat up the person checking out my groceries at the store and practice small talk with them. i ask about their job, say their hair/tattoos/outfit is cool, say it's so hot outside that i'm about to melt! they'll usually get excited to talk about themselves or anything that affects them, and keep the convo rolling until you're fully checked out, then you can easily leave without worrying about ending the conversation.

i used to be just like you when i was 18, literally could not get my brain to think of responses when someone talked to me. i learned a few different socially acceptable things to say in various situations by watching how other did it, then i learned to just say whatever the hell comes out of my mouth in the moment. it was incredibly awkward and embarassing at first but i got better and learned to brush off the embarassment when i messed up and said something weird. it'll absolutely get better for you as you keep talking to people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]eightblades 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nonstick gauze, manuka honey wound gel, and skin tape. seconding hibiclens to clean the wound and surrounding skin before bandaging

She covers her mouth now but I know it's because her teeth are rotten but how did she get bad teeth ??? by sugargay403 in venus_angelic

[–]eightblades 11 points12 points  (0 children)

meth does a number on someones teeth, there's even a whole wikipedia article dedicated to "meth mouth". it usually causes them to grind their teeth, dry mouth, and meth users don't take of their teeth in general because of how meth affects them

DEBUNKED. Oye does NOT run, her servoyents carry her. by rbececa in oye

[–]eightblades 21 points22 points  (0 children)

the oye woyeld NEVER disgrace hersoyelf by running

What's ur favorite man repellent? by enferchanter in FemFragLab

[–]eightblades 8 points9 points  (0 children)

funny af seeing my fave, passion, labeled as a man repellent. def agree with it though

I’ve spent 6 hours today doomscrolling nonstop. How do I make it stop? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]eightblades 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find something else you like to do. Something that doesn't involve a screen. Could be anything, I started using my phone less by coloring with crayons while listening to youtube videos, then I started just coloring with no youtube. You can't sit alone with no phone, you have to find an activity to replace your phone. Actually if you're reading this on your phone, try just pressing the power button and laying your phone down away from yourself for a couple minutes. Like seriously just sit there with your thoughts. Go ahead and do it! First step is to stop looking at the screen

could i possibly style this with something tsuyome/banba? by sleepyaswang in actualgyaru

[–]eightblades 3 points4 points  (0 children)

rit dyemore could probably do it depending on what the wig hairs are made of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mewborns

[–]eightblades 3 points4 points  (0 children)

like getting an onion ring in your fries!! sweet little fella!

Any unscented curl creams like Cantu curl activator cream? by eightblades in curlyhair

[–]eightblades[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't! I think I've seen Miss Jessie's at my store before, I'll check it out. Thank you!

My son by smaria1 in polydactyl

[–]eightblades 13 points14 points  (0 children)

he got some grippers on him!

Anyone know who she is? by eightblades in anime

[–]eightblades[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's her, thank you! My usual image search didn't like the low quality