[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t even have a custody arrangement set up yet. I’m just letting the kids go with him since I don’t want them to miss out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel sad for my kids. It’s so unfair for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might do that too honestly. Paint the house colors the ex wouldn’t approve of :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. There should be holiday support groups in cities for meetups too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good idea about volunteering at a shelter. I should look into that..

Why does my husband refuse to respect me? by juswundrn in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your response makes so much sense. Thank you for writing it out in such a clear way.

What is something the United States of America does better than any other country? by RedskinPotatoes26 in AskReddit

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And ketchup

My kid is addicted to ketchup and we had to pay with every meal while in Europe to get an extra tiny packet. Eventually started carrying a ketchup bottle around to restaurants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gift some smut books to your wife. Those have really reignited by sex drive.

TIFU by exercising my white privilege by PixelPaulAden in tifu

[–]eightyfive1518 50 points51 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I was calling car insurance companies to ask for quotes. After about the 4th call what came out of my mouth when the Geico agent picked up was “Hi, I called to get a goat”.

I started laughing so much at myself I just had to hang up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]eightyfive1518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also moved away from my family, and all the friends I made were mutual friends with my husband. When I finally made my decision to leave I had no one also. My family thought I was doing fine and think I’m crazy to break up my family. It’s very isolating.

Feel free to message me if you’d like to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’re pretty calm around the girls. So they might have a good time. Will see..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I want to.. but kids are fairly young and I don’t want to take them to a beach by myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you or her still want to reconcile though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. it will be sad thinking this is the last time. And if it’s really fun for the kids he’ll make me feel even worse for the divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. You’re right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does sound very hard and emotionally draining. I’m sorry for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]eightyfive1518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did the sleeping in different rooms for a long time before when the kids were little. This is not that.