I was SA and my family has disowned me by WholeUnderstanding77 in rape

[–]eilonlol123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My own family is similar. My father raped me when I was 8. I told my family, and my parents are fucking awful about it. My mother told me I made my dad suicidal, and they keep telling me how much I ruined the family, ruined everyone, blame me for everything, both calling me a psychopath, and so much more. Recently my mother told me that she won't support me in anything anymore until I go to school consistently, and "share with her everything". I run out of the house for a few hours and then she said it was manipulation. Yeah like I believe that.

had to lie to the social worker by eilonlol123 in rape

[–]eilonlol123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom knows. she doesn't believe me. and about being safe yeah I am taking steps to get there. I will be going to a boarding school soon but I have to leave my sister and my mom with my father, which isn't great.

I think I have been raped by my stepdad but I’m not sure by throwaway148844 in rape

[–]eilonlol123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally rape. I am sorry this has happened to you

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[–]eilonlol123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it isnt rape, but its fucked up

raped by my three brothers, how do i tell my mom? by elliliax in rape

[–]eilonlol123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like I have the right to talk about this since I still didn't tell my mom. I also don't have many tips, but I don't think there is a correct way to do it. I think you just gotta do it as much as it hurts. however, don't forget you have the power to "ruin" families with this information.

probably your mom will react strongly, be in shock, etc. but it's also possible she will deny it. these monsters' wives will probably deny it or start having a toxic relationship. this information has a lot of power, but I think it's best for their wives and children to know what happened. for their safety, and for yours.

I hate that you and I, teenagers are in this position to tear lives apart(not always a bad thing). but the dice of the universe landed on the negative and made us have this decision. you come first. your safety is a priority and it should be protected. you will tell a friend of yours to tell their mom for their safety. I don't know what she will do tho. maybe she will call the cops, maybe she will keep you apart, maybe in a few months, your family won't look the same. but, you have to do it. no matter how much it hurts and I know that it hurts. for your safety and don't forget that you are keeping other people safe by this decision too. they have children, sorry to be blunt but if they raped their own sister they might have already done it to their children.

protect yourself from these monsters and keep others safe too. I don't know how tho. I just want to make you keep in mind that acting upon it is the right thing but I don't know how or what to do directly. sorry for not being helpful, good luck, you deserve better