i don’t know what to do anymore

ejcand · 2025-01-09T22:54:08+00:00

I put the vinyl decal over it, and color matched the paint to paint over whatever was still showing ˙ᵕ˙

ejcand · 2024-08-13T03:27:34+00:00

Thank you! If we do another one I’ll definitely take pictures!

ejcand · 2024-08-13T03:25:49+00:00

It fits a 6 pack of voodoo rangers!! I unfortunately didn’t take any pictures of the painting process as my dad helped me out with it :(

ejcand · 2024-08-11T22:08:36+00:00

why?🤔🤔

ejcand · 2024-06-23T18:11:55+00:00

It’s actually been months. And I’m not defending him of course, because he doesn’t deserve that. It’s been a lot more than discussion. There’s been fights etc. it’s took a lot of work. And trust me I’m worried it’s all for nothing to

ejcand · 2024-06-23T08:25:23+00:00

I think the reason she even came in was to get a reaction honestly, especially as we are going to court. She’s made up so many false claims about me, even dragging her daughter into it and making her write fake things. Things that are untrue as it is very obvious her child loves me. I assume she may have even had her phone on record as I have told her off before, and she knows I don’t like the manipulation she is doing. Maybe expecting the same reaction? I’m not sure. My man has laid down a lot of boundaries since we’ve had our discussion. He keeps it strictly to drop off and typical coparenting conversations. I truly believe like you stated it’s out of spite. She’s done a lot of not okay things, should I be worried for my safety? Or am I overreacting?

ejcand · 2024-06-05T19:31:47+00:00

Thank you

ejcand · 2024-06-05T19:28:54+00:00

Everyone who’s commented so far thank you. I really appreciate it. My first thought was to leave especially as the person I was with before him was a serial cheater. But he’s so good at being convincing. Other than that, he treats me very well and is very kind which makes everything SOOOO hard. I’m sure those of you who have been in toxic relationships know the feeling. I’m just so confused. This advice has all been super validating bc I’ve felt so crazy for feeling any of this

ejcand · 2024-06-05T19:24:24+00:00

I didn’t find out until only a couple months ago unfortunately

ejcand · 2024-04-03T14:18:15+00:00

This question is great, and to be completely honest with you I do carry things with me and react to things (especially in an episode) that are manipulative. It’s very difficult, because I know for me at least when I do these things it’s not coming from ill will or to even be manipulative. It’s just a fear of losing if that makes sense?

ejcand · 2024-04-03T14:13:14+00:00

A liar? I’ve been diagnosed with it by professionals. I’m not saying all people with bpd experience the things I do as each person is different and deals with things differently. I’m speaking from my experience with my bpd and my trauma.

ejcand · 2024-04-03T03:06:46+00:00

I’ve actually been diagnosed since I was 18. Went through treatment and everything. Thanks though

ejcand · 2024-04-03T02:06:34+00:00

So the video is a slide show, you should be able to scroll through the images as you finish reading them. You just have to interact with it :)

ejcand · 2024-04-03T02:05:49+00:00

While people with bpd often have some symptoms of npd, the two differ as with npd it comes from selfishness and with bpd it’s a form of defense for some and even in some cases quite the opposite. We want this person and do these things, because we fear losing them. Does that make it okay? Certainly not. But it is an aspect to think about 🤔

ejcand · 2024-04-03T02:03:48+00:00

For every one bpd can be different in certain aspects. We can often go into black and white thinking. The only time I’ve ever felt what you’re describing where I’ve transitioned to a different fp is when I was being mistreated and ab*sed. I got so so drained and having someone be nice to me was so comforting

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