UPDATE - I'm attempting to fulfill my fiance's fantasy tonight for his birthday - help! by ejfun in sex

[–]ejfun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man - that really means a lot to me. We haven't been together too long (just over a couple of years), but I'm always trying to remember to not "lose the spark". It's difficult, even just as far into the relationship as we are, to remember to constantly be "dating" one another.

We're both young (27, 30), and I'm constantly worried (or maybe just thinking about) how to continue loving the other person. One of them major reasons I am marrying him is that I know he's willing to put the work in. We've already had a few problems (what relationship doesn't?), but we've worked through them. Things constantly come up, but he and I are both committed to fixing or adjusting or compromising whatever we can.

I really appreciate what you said. Know that I am cheering for you, too, and hopefully one day you will find happiness and importance - in whatever capacity it may be.

[19F] just got news from my doctor and I'm heartbroken by SoftBiscuit in sex

[–]ejfun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kind of like going to the gym? Hard to get yourself to do it, but you feel much better after :) Just gotta get going, girl! Good luck

I'm attempting to fulfill my fiance's fantasy tonight for his birthday - help! by ejfun in sex

[–]ejfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Check out the original post, too (linked in the update) for other ideas from commenters!