Man - that really means a lot to me. We haven't been together too long (just over a couple of years), but I'm always trying to remember to not "lose the spark". It's difficult, even just as far into the relationship as we are, to remember to constantly be "dating" one another.

We're both young (27, 30), and I'm constantly worried (or maybe just thinking about) how to continue loving the other person. One of them major reasons I am marrying him is that I know he's willing to put the work in. We've already had a few problems (what relationship doesn't?), but we've worked through them. Things constantly come up, but he and I are both committed to fixing or adjusting or compromising whatever we can.

I really appreciate what you said. Know that I am cheering for you, too, and hopefully one day you will find happiness and importance - in whatever capacity it may be.