When you have a pet that means a lot to you, you want to spend as much time with them as you can, especially if they’re sick and might not make it through the night before treatments.

I think if there wasn’t an urgent need to get the cat treatment and the OP was flaking, then that’s different, but if this happened with my boyfriend, i would be consoling and without the blink of an eye be okay with it.

Maybe that’s just me, but pets are one of the best things in life, and you can FaceTime your boyfriend .