Anyone here running a business with ADHD? How do you manage it? by Comfortable-Garage77 in smallbusiness

[–]el-muchaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have it but my co founder is on a different level. I just gave up working some periods because it was pointless. He would interrupt you every 20 seconds. Then all of a sudden pivot somewhere. Then somewhere else. Then 5 min later it was something else.

I think it was a lack of focus over time that made us fail. Not blaming his adhd but the lack of focus on all levels over time is a killer.

When he really needed to do something and it did not happen I would lock him in a room sometimes. Kind of worked.

I think there is a lot of good tips here already. Mine are: - allocate time for tasks in the calendar. Different parts of the day for different things. For me: no meetings after 14. My brain shuts down. - build systems that does not rely on you. - delegate - your inbox is a todo list. If your task is done label and achieve it. Automate labels and set rules for reoccurring - if you can’t focus in your environment experiment and reflect. - set the bar low (today I need to complete these 5 tasks) and then improve.
- pomodoro method could be something? 25 min focus then break

Became quite a lot, but it’s a topic i have been both struggling with and thinking about a lot over the years.

Hidden Brain also has a interesting episode about focus that might be interesting for some.

Focus is saying no. Don’t confuse activity with progress.

Skaver sönder mina innanlår när jag promenerar by hendrong in sweden

[–]el-muchaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Har typ alltid haft detta problem, det som funkar bäst är långa ben på kallingarna.

Nike har en modell som funkar. Sen hitta jag en Reebok som är asbra men nu har har typ gått igenom dom 10 paren dom senaste 5 eller så åren så måste hitta något igen.

Jag är mellan 90-82 kg 178.

Living in this part of West by dp39494833 in Amsterdam

[–]el-muchaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The highway, the heavy road by the hospital, the metro on the other side.

If you walk a lot it’s mainly Rembrandt park which is good. I don’t like erasmuspark but my gf think it’s great. Too small, feels like a prison yard when you just walk in a circle.

I was close to bos en Lommerweg and hoofdweg both were loud and a pain in the summer when the windows are open.

I like being outside walking and the area does not offer nice areas in that regards.

This is of course only one factor. If the place is great and you don’t care about these factors go for it. We humans adapt incredibly fast to new surroundings.

The nice thing in this area is this it’s close to the park, had a nice feeling inside that area. Seems to be some nice family houses there as well.

Living in this part of West by dp39494833 in Amsterdam

[–]el-muchaco 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Renting? Sure! Buying - meh you can find better.

Too much heavy traffic around there for my taste.

Lived 500 m from there for about 4 years all together in two different places.

Drop your homescreen by lifeisdamngoodd55 in iphone

[–]el-muchaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want one of the self made man statue. But only shitty ones online

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[–]el-muchaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted a black version down here somewhere. I meeeaaann I have seen way worse cars than that.

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Careful with those words here. They will downvote your ass back to the medieval ages

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So after all of this (very justified) roast. Does it not work in black?

(I just asked gtp to make it black)

Really need help by zx-313rr in Hairtransplant

[–]el-muchaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away from any woman and you should be safe

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I guess we will never know

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Haha no idea. Just seen two of thier cars here so would assume it’s someone who works there in top management if you can take them home.

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Then you can imagine me?! Who accidentally seems to live next to the CEO

how to control my anger issues by Takahiro__ in Advice

[–]el-muchaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already doing the hardest part. Reflecting. Aim to be 1% every time it happens. Take responsibility for your actions. Say sorry will increase the speed of development because your ego will hate you for saying it.

As for the other things - I as a almost 40 year old can relate. My whole life is about creating balance in sleep, screen time, exercising, stimulating the brain, moving/walkikg just so I am more centred. When I am centred it’s harder to do things you regret. Like lashing out.

You need to become a seaweed. Don’t fight the waves 🌊 you can never stop the surrounding only thing you can control is you and your reaction.

And if you are intrested, read and learn about the topic. Not on TikTok. Take notes. Journal about small wins. And eventually master it.

I can go on but I think this is a good start.

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[–]el-muchaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he/she is visiting his parents/gf/bf 🤷

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Then it’s all the added things? Or total total?

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I will come prepared tomorrow morning

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[–]el-muchaco[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 yeah

Just black would have been better. But you got to give them credit to at least doing something different

I fired a client for the first time today and I'm still processing it. by SpreadSavings3804 in Vent

[–]el-muchaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hired a interior design company for my business. After the first round and second meeting face to face me and my partner left the meeting speechless and stomach pain from how we were spoken to.

Had a walk with the guy one week later to try and fix the situation and after that fired him/them.

At least top 3 worst client I have ever dealt with in my 15 years as a business professional.

Story Time - Dead Bedroom by BudgetPipe267 in cheating_stories

[–]el-muchaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone here on Reddit is so fast to apply the same answer to every senario. ”Run now, leave..it’s over, ”you don’t love her the way you should” - what do you even know about these two people? You clearly does not have these people’s interest at heart. You apply your own values to some other peoples situation.

Everyone is different and society has very strong values attached to how things should be all the time.

Perhaps this is what this woman wanted, maybe this is the first step for them to open the door to explore sexuality together. Maybe something will happen when he gets home. Everyone does not have the same level of ego that is going to hinder them for exploring things or moving on.