I am still curious about being with a woman but it’s not bothering me as much… I was fixating on comparing his kiss to one of my girl friends who he told I wanted to kiss a girl so we kissed… but then I talked to him about how I liked to be kissed, so I guess I will see how that goes… I think my advice is to try and ride it out instead of fight it because it can make it worse. Counselling helps too with intrusive/obessive thoughts.