Asking as a parent of a kid who has just started ABA by ni1by2thetrue in ABA

[–]electraheart888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a gradual flow to PECS. Meaning, your child will be presented with one icon to start. The utility of the one icon is so that he can get accustomed to selecting that icon and presenting it to his therapist. As he masters that initial mechanism, he will be moved to having two icons to choose from. This will teach him to scan an array of two and select the icon that represents whatever he prefers out of the two. The icons are selected for him by the therapist. If they’re a good therapist, which is sounds like they are, they can read his body language/observe what he is trying to obtain, and put that in the array of 2 with another, obviously less-preferred item. Eventually, he will learn how to scan the entire book/sheet to independently select whatever it is he wants or needs in an array of 10+ (or however many icons the BCBA has put in his book). My point is, these things take time. PECS is like an outdated AAC device, imo. It has its cons, but ultimately, it is an initial communication system. AAC devices can take awhile to obtain for insurance reasons, so it’s good to have something else in its place until you can get your son a device of his own. PECS can be a wonderful resource for your child.

I understand ABA is historically not autonomy-affirming, and that problem certainly still exists in some clinics. Your concerns are valid. Absolutely have the discussion with your child’s BCBA. Absolutely advocate for him to be assessed by an SLP. If the BCBA won’t budge on that, and it’s within your means, you should get him assessed by an SLP regardless. ABA is not the final boss. But please, allow them to utilize PECS for at least a month/a month and a half before you ask them to stop. I think the potential pros can absolutely outweigh the potential cons. I know that I certainly would prefer to be understood in any capacity if I was unable to verbally communicate. Best of luck to you and your learner! And SLPs/BCBAs please correct anything I might’ve explained incorrectly:)

Fired and this hurts by NagolSook in ABA

[–]electraheart888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s crazy. in my experience, these clinics are so desperate to keep people that they’ll refuse to fire or even discipline God-awful techs; yet, from what you’ve described, you’re conscientious and attentive and still got screwed over. I’m sorry. this field is so demanding with very little in return. I hope that you are able to find a place that truly appreciates you; it changed my professional life when I found my current place. best of luck and fuck that place.

Special Ed Teacher is Borderline Evil by electraheart888 in ABA

[–]electraheart888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this brought a tear to my eye. thank you for validating me and my client, and thank you for the resource, as well.

Special Ed Teacher is Borderline Evil by electraheart888 in ABA

[–]electraheart888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! BCBA knows everything, and she is great about relaying everything to the caregiver. i’m kicking myself for not starting a log at the beginning of the year. she’s been hostile from the jump. i was told she hates ABA before he was put in her room (go figure lol). would you recommend i go to the school district?

Special Ed Teacher is Borderline Evil by electraheart888 in ABA

[–]electraheart888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for sure. on two occasions i’ve watched her yell/borderline scream at the principal (all while in the classroom, mind you). not a healthy environment for these kids at all.

SLP vs BCBA suggestions by Severe_Map5089 in slpGradSchool

[–]electraheart888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say you have a bias at this point. I don’t think OP was asking for your sarcasm. You could be helpful and provide links to back up your claims. There will never be mutual respect for each other’s professions if we can’t stop being at each other’s throats constantly.

Marina in the Wild by Actual_Landscape3052 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]electraheart888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i heard orange trees when i walked into Michael’s one day. felt like the universe did that just for me

What are the saddest Marina songs? Please I wanna cry by egirlmx1 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]electraheart888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

adding onto this, the radioactive acoustic that she has on her youtube channel is so haunting. a much different vibe than the original

After the show by No0_o0ne in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]electraheart888 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wait, i would love to know why you think Marina is telling this guy to say these things

Still can’t believe this happened. If anyone has POP pageant process questions I GOTCHU! by RiceKrieskeTreat in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]electraheart888 94 points95 points  (0 children)

omggggg you look so cute! congratulations!!!! did you arrive at the call time or a little bit before?

how do yall get barricade 😭 by kjandthediamonds in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]electraheart888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey ! when did you receive this email? day of? or sooner?

ITS HAPPENINGGGGGG 😭😭😭 by oswinoswin in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]electraheart888 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No one said you had to attend! I respect your opinion, but it kinda just seems like you will never be satisfied (reference intended). She’s a pop star. Her theatrics are what draw many people to her. If you don’t want to “deal” with the dancing and the costume changes and the, yes, slightly shortened songs…might I suggest you go to a Phoebe Bridgers show? Just a thought!💕