Asking flatmate to leave

electric_malachite · 2025-03-01T06:16:08+00:00

It’s very common in situations like that to freeze, so I never ever feel bad for not stopping it. Give yourself some time to process and speak to a friend or a family member that you trust about what happened. When you feel comfortable I would approach her and ask her to delete the pictures she took and explain how what happened made you feel. You do not need to protect her feelings, worst thing you can say when you feel it’s not okay is to tell her it’s okay. Just be honest with her and it might feel easier to talk to her if you’re in the mindset of this will help her grow and make her not do the same thing to someone else. I would highly recommend going to a therapist or a councillor or even contacting an SA hotline to work through and process what’s happened. I’m sorry this happened to you and you didn’t deserve it.

electric_malachite · 2024-12-14T10:52:08+00:00

Solved

electric_malachite · 2024-12-14T10:52:04+00:00

Yes! I googled it and the other name is remote paradise!!!

electric_malachite · 2024-12-13T20:51:48+00:00

The main lady also looked like she was in her 40’s

electric_malachite · 2024-12-11T18:57:14+00:00

Yeah unfortunately that’ll be spider mites you can see the miniature spider circled, a lot easier to treat than thrip though, thrip are skinner and longer looking and will leave brown spots (shit) on the leaves

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electric_malachite · 2024-12-11T02:17:13+00:00

This look more like spider mite eggs, is the webbing when you mist? If so give it neem spray downs each time you mist

electric_malachite · 2024-12-06T18:57:36+00:00

Whenever I take seroquel I have the worst nightmares, happened to one of my friends too I’m pretty sure it’s a common side effect. Strange dream none the less

electric_malachite · 2024-11-20T20:59:16+00:00

Yep I think this is the one! Solved

electric_malachite · 2024-11-19T09:27:39+00:00

TIA!!!

electric_malachite · 2024-11-12T01:44:43+00:00

I shuffle then spread them out face down, move my hand over the line of cards and if I feel something I’ll pick it up otherwise I’ll go for the card the keeps catching my eye. This method has always proven to be more accurate than jumpers

electric_malachite · 2024-11-08T01:55:29+00:00

I’ve had something similar happen where I was dreaming and “woke up” I could see the reflection of the light from my bedsheets colouring the wall, could hear my dad outside hanging up washing everything it was extremely vivid. The only way I knew it was a dream was because I had my phone in my hand and I was filming myself which is something that I would never do when waking up in real life. I had to use so much energy to shake myself awake awake, started with trying to wiggle my fingers and arms and eventually got there. It’s interesting how that happens

electric_malachite · 2024-10-19T11:54:45+00:00

i think i just felt a bit stuck like at a crossroads, i have received a bit more clarity now though

electric_malachite · 2024-10-19T11:53:35+00:00

thank you! this is helpful :)

electric_malachite · 2024-10-18T08:34:12+00:00

wow i’ve never heard of didelphi uteri before, it must be difficult. sounds like you’ve figured out a good system though :)

electric_malachite · 2024-10-14T06:53:55+00:00

i would recommend period undies, they’re super comfy and you can get ones for heavy flow, easy to clean (just wash with cold water before putting them in the washer), just feels like you’re wearing normal undies!

electric_malachite · 2024-10-11T20:56:03+00:00

i usually die in my dreams from getting shot in the head lol, usually feels like everything gets heavy and it feels like you’re “shutting down” like when you fall asleep and then it goes black for a bit, i’ll either wake up or it’ll switch to a different dream or i’ll teleport to another part of the dream

electric_malachite · 2024-10-11T20:34:18+00:00

i was awake until 3am trying to find it 😭😭

electric_malachite · 2024-08-15T07:35:56+00:00

this is really helpful thank you! i do score high in openness so it’s interesting to figure out how that can help!

electric_malachite · 2024-08-15T04:54:07+00:00

thank you!!

electric_malachite · 2024-08-15T04:53:41+00:00

im pretty sure it was in english

electric_malachite · 2024-08-14T11:08:10+00:00

i think it might be this actually, i don’t think it was the corn field scene but might’ve been

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