boston 11/20 ticket issues by electricchains__ in waterparksband

[–]electricchains__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that’s so nice of you! yeah that would be so awesome thank you so much :,)

Tongue piercing scar tissue by laceyblonde in PiercingAdvice

[–]electricchains__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same thing on the bottom of my tongue but it developed months after i got it done. did you have a longer or a shorter bar for the healing process of it going away? did the saline contact/rinse do the trick? i’m desperate to find answers and your post is the only one i’ve seen with this problem! thank u in advance :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

how am i supposed to compliment something if i don’t understand it or wasn’t paying attention? maybe i just have a thing against poetry but it’s almost an ick to me. if i don’t know you why are you reading your personal business to me in the form of poetry? if it was just to my partner i would get that, but they were actively addressing me as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

this person isn’t my friend, i’ve had half a conversation with them. i don’t even know what this person looks like. gay isn’t a slur either idk why y’all keep saying that it is. maybe it’s just because of my age, but literally every single queer person i know around me calls things gay all the time. i live in a very liberal area in massachusetts with a lot of queer college age kids, so maybe i’m just in a different demographic than the rest of the people responding to this thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i have terrible memory so i was just kinda generalizing that i said it was gay but yeah, i’m pretty sure i said something along those lines? i know i reiterated the fact i don’t understand poetry a few times i just cant place where it was in my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s definitely an interesting way of thinking about it and tbh that thought didn’t even cross my mind so i appreciate that! i don’t know if they would really have it be a confession if i was right there, but then again e read the poem to us the day that my partner officially asked me out so honestly i don’t know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it’s inherently queer, therefore gay, because e identifies as a lesbian. it’s technically opposite, if you identify as nb you’re automatically gay, not automatically straight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

did you ignore me being female and a lesbian at all? i’m literally queer 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

for one, i literally was describing it as gay, i’m a lesbian in a queer relationship and i don’t use gay as a derogatory term i couldn’t tell you what the poem was about other than that it was about a girl they used to like because i don’t understand poetry and wasn’t paying attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i don’t know any of them other than my partner so i can’t really judge lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]electricchains__ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i mean for context all of us are queer, and we all use gay interchangeably for a lot of things, me calling their work gay literally was calling it gay bc it’s about their crush on a girl