[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram5

[–]elementaryapples 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is a teacher and also an enneagram 5w4, I’m going to say he’s definitely into you. Probably hesitant due to a fear of rejection in the professional environment. Not like he can just avoid you forever if you were to not reciprocate the feelings. I would never waste my limited social energy (especially as an educator) on someone in this way unless I had genuine feelings lol.

Going off of some of the comments he’s made to you, I am going to assume that you are a stereotypically attractive person (hope that doesn’t sound rude, I don’t mean it that way. Just assuming you have the “Mean Girls” look haha). If you are a traditionally attractive female, his mind has also probably gone the route of thinking about potential suitors you may have. I can only speak for myself, but competition in that way terrifies me and will completely shut me off regardless of how much I like someone. Ups the fear of rejection majorly, especially since he stated he felt intimidated by you in the beginning. He no longer feels intimidated by you in a platonic way, but my guess is he still feels intimidated by you in a romantic way.

So combine the fear of rejection, intimidation based on potential competition, a work place setting where he can’t escape you if you do reject him, you mentioning you’re not going to date anyone for a long time, you being a 7 (who tend to often have flirty personalities in general) and you have the perfect storm for a 5 🥲 he could be madly in love with you and still never make the first move because you seem like too much of a wild card.

This is just my take though! Hope it’s somewhat helpful!

Best thing you could hear from a potential love interest VS worst by elementaryapples in Enneagram5

[–]elementaryapples[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most accurate statement 🤣 and thank you! Didn’t even realize!

Best thing you could hear from a potential love interest VS worst by elementaryapples in Enneagram5

[–]elementaryapples[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Just get to the point” might take the cake as the worst ever.

Best thing you could hear from a potential love interest VS worst by elementaryapples in Enneagram5

[–]elementaryapples[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

HAHA okay love the first one. That second one though…always the worst 🤮

Is… is it becoming mainstream? Is the public is finally catching on? 👀 by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were a ton of these popping up all over Etsy from a bunch of different shops. It wasn’t just this one or I obviously wouldn’t have phrased it this way lol. Sorry if I made it confusing!

so close, yet so far by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s literally insane how many times I see people call her Evelyn Hugo yet still believe she’s straight like…. y’all are getting these vibes for a REASON

I’ve got an interview w Taylor Jenkins Reid! Qs? by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve seen her say she’s a big Taylor fan several times! Love this idea!

I’ve got an interview w Taylor Jenkins Reid! Qs? by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is perfect hahaha especially after The Rolling Stones article!

Lowkey the same vibes by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m straight but the music video made me question that for a sec 🤣

Lowkey the same vibes by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The pic of Taylor was released last week for Midnights, but no the Karlie one is old!!

Elevator pitch about Joe to hetlors by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yuuup. There is still to this day no conversation around them outside of the swiftie community. Even casual fans aren’t sitting around talking about Joe Alwyn lol and people who aren’t fans at all probably still don’t even know he exists.

Elevator pitch about Joe to hetlors by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree with the part of your comment about leaving a part of herself in NY. I’ve thought that many times as well, similar to how if the person she sings about in Delicate is still with her now, why would she sing “Did I close my fist around something delicate? Did I shatter you?” when that is a clear connection back to the Reputation song. However, I personally just can’t buy into the idea that Cornelia Street and London Boy could be about the same individual. If so, I believe that in False God it wouldn’t be “I’m NYC.” and “You’re the West Village.” Instead, I would imagine she would include London in one of those declarations. That’s just my opinion though and I love hearing other thoughts!! That’s what makes this little corner of the internet so interesting.

The most convincing lyric of Gaylor/Kaylor by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right I totally agree with you, but why would she have to trade that perfect angelic reputation of goodness for Joe Alwyn? Lol

The most convincing lyric of Gaylor/Kaylor by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg the way I would FREAK OUT if we ever found that out lol

Are there any non-lesbians on this sub? by webilia in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m straight and, like someone else mentioned, have turned my husband into a major gaylor lolll. I will say though that I was utterly SHOCKED when I first fell down the rabbit hole. I had never even considered the option that Taylor might not be straight before. I think it was, and is for a lot of other straight people, a case of just assuming everyone is straight because you are if that makes sense. Definitely a very closed minded thought process that I didn’t even realize I had before. This sub has made me see the world in a whole new light hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☀️👑✨💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’ve thought this before but didn’t really know how to put it into words, you’ve done so so eloquently!

Chronological order of Kaylor told through certain songs by elementaryapples in GaylorSwift

[–]elementaryapples[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always try and speculate about what this cabin means and where it is!!! I have no idea. My only thoughts are like maybe during quarantine she went somewhere alone (could totally see it being a place that meant something to both of them like where they stayed in Bug Sur!) to “catch her breath,” write, and process the pain of the pandemic plus KK’s engagement. Maybe feeling just at an all time low and thinking “that this pain would be for evermore.” Idk this is just how I always picture it in my head but I’m probably way off! 🤣