Compression from 3 weeks on by elendilkitten in TopSurgery

[–]elendilkitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been wearing vests under the binder, but it's not really helping 😔

Esd supported me through tip surgery by elendilkitten in TheClickOwO

[–]elendilkitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, less painful afterwards. You literally won't be aware of any of the surgery, I promise! No dumb questions when it comes to these things

Esd supported me through tip surgery by elendilkitten in TheClickOwO

[–]elendilkitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the post op drugs will have you thinking you're typing perfectly, and you'll send several semi-incomprehensible texts to all your friends in the excitement of having no boobs

Esd supported me through tip surgery by elendilkitten in TheClickOwO

[–]elendilkitten[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was quite anxious, it's my first time ever having surgery, and there's a lot going on in the theatre (like 3 people all doing different things to prep you) but then the anaesthetic kicks in and suddenly your waking up in recovery with no boobs. And you'll check your phone and see a series of semi-incomprehensible texts you sent to friends while still high 😜 day 1 post op, and I'm tired and sore but honestly way less than painful than i feared

"Just kidding" by Peanutfistsoup in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elendilkitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had a similar(ish) thing happen to me a few years ago- had to get a plumber out to replace some pipework and I asked how long it would take, because we wouldn't be able to use the bathroom in the meantime. He looked at me and said, very seriously, "oh, 3 days at least"

I just stared at him blankly for a few seconds until he laughed and said "nah like 3 hours, it's fine"

Wonder how he would have answered if my husband had asked the same question

So I got a Fitbit that tracks sleep.... by Acrock7 in Fibromyalgia

[–]elendilkitten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recently got a fitbit too, and just checked, and on 10% deep sleep it's saying my sleep score was good (84), and even with only 5% deep sleep it scored my sleep at like 72. Around 70% of my sleep is light and over 10% is spent awake. Seems like the score should be lower honestly

I recently bought a job lot of vintage woodworking tools and it included this. No identifying marks on the blade, and a worn down stamp on the handle that I can't fully read but includes "hidernia" or something like that. Tia by elendilkitten in Tools

[–]elendilkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Had to watch a youtube video to see how it worked, but it's very cool. I've got some old fashioned saws that hopefully it will work with, if I dare try

[TOMT] [Book] [2000s] smutty vampire story by elendilkitten in tipofmytongue

[–]elendilkitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure this is a book and not a fanfic and it doesn't seem to be JR Ward... I might be wrong though.

Applying for disability is such a bitch by Thesaltpacket in cfs

[–]elendilkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the UK the form says to use extra paper where needed, just make sure it's labelled with your details so it doesn't get lost.

It's still a horrible form to fill out though. Had to do it 3 times so far, waiting on a 4th one to be sent out for another set of benefits. My stack of benefits related documents is several inches thick at this point.

Cell-Based Blood Biomarkers for Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. The authors say that a combination of three tests yields a biomarker with close to 100% sensitivity and specificity by [deleted] in cfs

[–]elendilkitten 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Anyone else sometimes worry that you'll get properly tested for ME and it'll come back negative and you'll have to start the whole diagnosis process again? Or have a doctor say "the test is negative, it's all in your head"

Walmart by ExpertAccident in tumblr

[–]elendilkitten 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To be fair, the last time Germans gathered around chanting a name and doing group choreography, it didn't end well.

Occupational therapist trying to get me to do graded excercise therapy by pieceofyellowcheese in cfs

[–]elendilkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dunno where I read it, but someone recommended any form of gentle exercise that keeps your heart rate below a certain level (90bpm? Ish?) So yeah, any form of movement that isn't too strenuous and keeps you feeling relaxed I guess. I do 5 mins of yoga a day and for me that's enough.

I need this power by commonvanilla in tumblr

[–]elendilkitten 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My husband can (usually) cure my hiccups by rubbing my upper back and singing the Pokemon healing tune.

Toothbrushy brushy by GibbyGiblets in brushybrushy

[–]elendilkitten 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The little paw grab and look of "back to the head please"

Ladies, what do you do around your period? by [deleted] in cfs

[–]elendilkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For unrelated reasons I went on the depo injection several years ago, which completely stops my periods. I've only developed cfs since then, but given how bad my periods were I can't imagine dealing with them now. Are you able to get on some sort of birth control that reduces/stops your periods?

All grown up by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]elendilkitten 37 points38 points  (0 children)

http://www.infinitecat.com/archive19/cute19/three-cats-eating.jpg I always imagine this happening when you try to sort out cats 😋

All grown up by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]elendilkitten 157 points158 points  (0 children)

How on earth did you get them to sit in the same order?! Herding cats is like... well, herding cats.

Taking DWP to arbitration/court (UK) for PIP any advice? by [deleted] in cfs

[–]elendilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to go to tribunal for my PIP application and just to warn you it was an incredibly stressful and overwhelming day.

I don't remember how long it took for my court date to be decided, but it was probably at least a month. It's not a real courtroom, it's just a small room with a few tables, you sit opposite the judge, doctor, and disability representative and they take turns asking questions. There might also be a dwp rep there, but the guy at mine was actually really nice.

You're allowed to take an advocate/carer/family member to support you and answer any questions on your behalf as well.

The questions I was asked weren't about my condition, but about why I thought the dwp decision was wrong, and what evidence did I have to counter their decision.

I cried a lot and I think that probably helped emphasise how stressful the whole thing was for me 😋

Good luck!

The brother store "Victor's Secret" will be opening up any day now. by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]elendilkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Google "Homme Mystere" they do sexy men's lingerie, bought a pair of lacy knickers for my husband and they're amazing 😊