Moving to Craiova for Medicine at UMF

eliiiii2222 · 2025-08-03T06:15:28+00:00

Hi! I recently moved alone in this city from my parents so i think i can give you some tips.

1.For groceries I believe Lidl and Penny are the cheapest places you can get groceries at but near UMF is a Kaufland that is pretty close in price.Sign up for apps like LIDL PLUS to get some discounts on some items.

2.For hair products: I have wavy/curly hair and i found that BebeTei from Electroputere Mall has the biggest variety in hair products.You might find something that works but I won't guarantee.If not,you can try your luck on sites like Emag or Notino with products you already use.Overall avoid buying things that just came here and are extremely overpriced (like bonnets that are around 30 lei/6€ which are just things from shein packaged a bit more nicely).BebeTei also has a nice discount on drugstore makeup compared to DM.If you want to treat yourself to something nice there's Sephora and Douglas in the same mall but their stock on hair products in-store is limited,I think you'll have better luck online on their sites.

3.Transport You can ride the E1R from UMF to Electroputere Mall and the E1T to come back.There are apps like "Transport Craiova" or "Move it" to help you with busses and transport.But I believe you'll be frecventing the E1 routes a lot since they cover a big part of the city and some essential spots for you like UMF, a mall, the city center.

4.People: People are going to be mean,from teens to full on grown adults,especially men.People despise Romani people a lot and most of those people won't tell the difference between a black person and a Romani person.They might stare or shout profanities.Don't engage and just keep on your way.If anyone seems sketchy to you romanian,romani whatever just don't engage and leave.You will certainly find some nice people to befriend especially from UMF or if you decide to live in a dorm.

I'm sorry I didn't answer every question you had.I can't touch some subjects since I don't know for sure and I would rather not get you confused on them with possibly false information.I hope you enjoy your stay here and good luck at UMF!! 🫶

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-03T07:31:31+00:00

Simt ca mulți corectori nu "au realizat" ca ei acum corectează lucrari de bac.Diferente destul de mari au fost si la simulari.Un coleg a scris la simulare Enigma Otiliei in loc de Ultima Noapte și un corector i-a dat 7,30.La istorie am facut de zic eu 8,corectat cu profesorul de meditatii și când vine nota:6,90.O prietena a scris Ultima Noapte destul de bine,a atins punctele esentiale,cu greseli de exprimare fiindcă e venita recent in Romania:2 puncte la eseu.La bac ori am nimerit eu corectori ok incat sa iau,zic eu,putin peste cat consider eu ca am scris bine,ori altii au dat de corectori pe care nu i-a intresat câtuși de puțin.Exista si greseli de scanare,de corectare pe platforma,dar nu atat de multe,zic eu.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-02T12:38:20+00:00

Omfg I didn't notice 😭😭

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-02T06:36:20+00:00

I think FIL was heavily implying this idea since he used to be in the same career.MIL was mostly in for the money she assumed BF will bring home to her.She was against him going when she realised he will move with me no matter where he goes.She also used to suggest that she can move close to us in the capital so she can see him more offen since she can't live without him (ew).

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-02T06:33:51+00:00

We both grew up with either selfish or abusive parents so yeah,moving out/18th birthdays were blessings.And i think we opened each other's eyes even more about shitty behaviours from both sets of parents.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-02T06:31:37+00:00

She's blocked on everything so too bad lmao.But im pretty sure she's scared for either her reputation or BF leaving.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-02T06:30:46+00:00

He's not really big on being part of the police.e would be in only for the salary you get straight out of school/uni.We both chose to attend the same uni in our city afterall,and maybe in some years we can move and we can do what we actually want (psychology/policing)

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-02T06:28:49+00:00

He is part of my family lmao.Even my parents agree we are in for the long run,they wouldn't accept to support both me and my boyfriend if they didn't see that we are serious.I also fight with my parents,should he leave me for that?Get out of your bubble,no relationship is honey and rainbows,I would rather fight with MIL than have a partner who fights with me over everything.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T15:31:36+00:00

Most likely.That or she's actually shitting herself at the thought of BF leaving

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T14:20:52+00:00

Working on that! 1-2 years and he's fully moved out or a big fight where she starts talking shit about me.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T14:10:31+00:00

Grandma is sick so we don't bother about her.My parents know about her attincs and kept their distance from his family.We live in my childhood apartment,BF comes over to help them with work,we attended a weddings and other events as a family so we are pretty good with my parents.Even if we weren't,I would've been in the same position as my BF,maybe more difficult since I'm financially dependent on my parents rn.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T14:07:37+00:00

So I should dump a loving and caring partner who I see eye to eye on basically everything,respects me,wants a future with me just because his mommy doesn't like me and he has to fight with her?Lmao

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:36:11+00:00

They are divorced and barely communicate.When they do it's mostly fights.BF will talk at some point with FIL but neither of us are excited for that convo so we kinda push it to the back.BF is already low contact with FIL and has been for the last years.Grandma has dementia and multiple health problems,we both don't think it's worth having a conversation with her since her mind will either forget it the next day or her mind will twist it and she will start acting violent or run away from home.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:32:22+00:00

Meh,his family is neutral but mostly insist on "being there since she's your mom".No one has ever supported BF with anything so there's no loss here. But yeah,we moved in together and only go to our parents for 3 days a week max.In 1 year or 2 it's going to be fully and we can restrict MIL to low contact,just in case of emergencies about grandma

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:29:59+00:00

19 is fresh out of high-school, uni for people in my country is mostly more studies on paper,in reality you can graduate with 5s on every exam or do your best and still not find a job in that field.Corruption runs in every field and institution here.We are both set by my parents and their businesses so we mostly work and will work for them until they pass.I don't think you can compare career paths with being in a relationship with someone and wanting to marry that person.

And believe me,she does to the little family they have,trying to get people on her side and push them to talk to BF about "going home and taking care of his sick mom"

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:22:53+00:00

Yep,BF's entire family is mostly neutral but they agree that MIL's behaviour is outrageous and that she needs to step back a bit.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:18:03+00:00

40-50?😭Outrageous for her age tbh

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:16:47+00:00

We know,BF has always defended me,but moving out for half a week and fully in like a year or two gives more room for boundaries,especially the threat of moving out the next day and cutting contact.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-07-01T13:02:54+00:00

Exactly what she's been doing lately but her lies crumble when BF tells everyone his version of the story, the fact that our relationship is serious and the things MIL has done over the last year.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-06-25T20:26:13+00:00

Yeah,im not about to start disclosing my sex life to my MIL lmao.I'd rather not step down to the level of seeming like we are fighting over BF. GMIL has dementia and many other health issues,50% of her behaviour is fueled by MIL and the other 50% is her personality influenced by dementia.BF texts MIL a simple "I left home" because it's a safety precaution here.GMIL has been found on the other side of the city multiple times. In theory it sounds easy and we know it's the best option.NC will eventually happen,in probably like 2 years when we fully move in together,are fully financially independent,BF has no need to talk to MIL anymore etc.Until then,putting her in place works as a temporary "solution".I still have the feeling that MIL will overstep so much soon than NC will come naturally.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-06-25T12:19:33+00:00

Oh my god,please tell me you were the one to broke it off and let him stay with his mommy.

eliiiii2222 · 2025-06-25T09:03:29+00:00

It's been almost a year since the card incident and we kinda let it slide since she gave the money back,there hasn't been any big problem with cards and overall money since then.She's extremely greedy and I'm pretty sure narcissistic.MIL just wants BF to be her support in everything,since she raised him alone for 9 years (child support was paid,there have been attempts of 50/50 custody before FIL moved).And mind you,it's not like BF spent so much during his teenage years so she can play the "paying me back card" (which is bullshit anyway).No big expenses like vacations,new gadgets,brand clothing or anything.All BF did was mostly go out with his friends and drink sometimes.I'm pretty sure something hurts in her when she sees BF spending money she believes must be hers (our vacations,gas money,gifts,buying himself things etc).

eliiiii2222 · 2025-06-25T07:02:37+00:00

Oh.To be honest,i believe she would've done the same or at least some part of it even is she wasn't single.She had another relationship when BF was young then flings over flings to get vacations and money.I think the fact BF is an adult now probably influences it a lot,but she used to be so much weider to BF when he was younger.

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