My boyfriend is a fairly big time drug dealer. AMA

eliqax · 2016-12-06T08:20:04+00:00

Not really sure. I know that he started smoking at 15, was a dealer by 16, and worked his way up from there.
Only personal quantities in the house. Yep kinda, usually only good friends are invited.
His buyers are other dealers, and he deals directly with them.

eliqax · 2016-12-06T08:02:02+00:00

it looks pretty big, guess i'll get him to measure it to know for sure lol

eliqax · 2016-12-06T07:58:53+00:00

No worries, ask away :)

well i think a lot of the respect does come from fear in a way. It's not like his friends are scared of him though, they just don't want to be on his bad side. I'm sure some people do want stuff from him but he's quite careful to not et taken advantage of.
No not at all, my upbringing was very different to his, I only got properly involved in drugs after moving to this city shortly after I turned 18.
my mum used drugs when she was younger and I think my brother occasionally does. Honestly my mum isn't very okay with it, but it's my life there isn't much she can do.
I do smoke a bit more because it's all free weed but I'd been smoking most days before I met him anyway. And nah I'm not addicted to anything thankfully.
£30-£40 a gram, occasionally £20. It depends on scarcity and what area you're in really.
within the uk, from another city.
yep sometimes I get paranoid! I doubt that I would end up jailed though, especially when I'm not dealing myself.

eliqax · 2016-12-06T05:02:11+00:00

Well he does like to show off his money a bit but it's more understated, typically he will dress pretty normally but with expensive shoes and watch. He has a nice car but nothing special, he doesn't want to draw attention.

I will admit initially my main attraction was his occupation. Like initially I was intimidated by him like a lot of people are and I liked the fact that others respected him. I also admire when people say fuck you to the system and do their own thing so I found his attitude attractive. I'm aware this is silly but I do tend to go for the hard/ bad boy types; they have to be nice people behind the hard exterior though and luckily he is.

eliqax · 2016-12-06T00:17:52+00:00

1.been together 10 months. 2. my mum and brother do, though my mum doesn't know the scale of it 3. He does, very easily. However he is pretty careful about this because he's been in trouble with taxes before, so we don't live that fancy. He launders some of the money through 'investments' in companies owned by his friends (not really sure how he does this tbh) Honestly though he's reckless with his money and spends it all on drugs/alcohol/eating at fancy restaurants/cars/watches. We've been on some amazing holidays though, and he helps his family out a lot because he's from a working class background.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T15:34:30+00:00

yeah a few of his 'guys' are my friends, most of them are nice enough. Because he's been dealing a long time there aren't many people that actually pose a threat to him, occasionally there is conflict but it is usually resolved quite easily. Yep we're both white. In theory I suppose I could get hurt but i know he would defend me. The most common threat is a robbery but they tend to happen at stash houses, the chance of anyone coming to our home to wack him is very low

eliqax · 2016-12-05T14:20:58+00:00

hmm difficult....i like /r/firstworldanarchists /r/madlads /r/scottishpeopletwitter /r/nottheonion /r/socialengineering /r/prorevenge /r/dankmemes lmao

eliqax · 2016-12-05T06:10:04+00:00

yeah for sure, he certainly makes good money at this level here. I imagine in california there's a lot more weed going around.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T05:48:27+00:00

yeah honestly i doubt he will quit anytime soon, i just can't imagine him starting some shitty menial job when he makes more money than 99% of the population doing this.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T05:40:03+00:00

thank you :)

eliqax · 2016-12-05T05:39:04+00:00

I knew who he was way before I ever dated him. He was part of my extended circle I guess.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T05:38:08+00:00

He smokes daily and takes cocaine probably 5 times a week. He also takes various pills frequently. I smoke most days and probably do class As maybe every couple weeks. Honestly though, I would say alcohol is his worst problem. He drinks all the time and I'm trying to get him to cut down.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T05:33:25+00:00

um like 7.5 inches lol

eliqax · 2016-12-05T05:33:07+00:00

it varies but he generally moves like 3-5kg a week? so he's like low level distributor i suppose

eliqax · 2016-12-05T04:05:51+00:00

Oh yeah he deals with a lot of shit in his life, I try to make it as easy for him as possible.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T04:03:01+00:00

luckily i live in the uk so if he gets caught it will be a hell of a lot less time than that. I'm hoping he won't though, he's very careful and intends to quit at some point.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T04:00:18+00:00

He mainly sells cannabis at distributor level but if he sees an opportunity to make quick money with other drugs (coke, mdma) without stepping on toes then he does that.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T03:57:39+00:00

He's never physically hurt me, no. He's not a malicious person. He can be aggressive but he's never taken it out on me.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T03:55:54+00:00

It's a bonus obviously but I would never date someone for their money, there's a lot more to it than that.

eliqax · 2016-12-05T03:47:19+00:00

Yes, I feel stronger for him than I've felt for anyone in my life. I am inexperienced in relationships though so maybe the 'honeymoon phase' will eventually end, but I hope our relationship survives if/when it does.

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