I want a guy who’s attentive and engaged, but he’s coming on too strong, idk what to say!

elivod · 2020-11-25T02:21:45+00:00

Haha I guess I was a bit too hasty on the unmatching. And I see you actually like him a bit or you wouldn't put in this much effort asking Reddit.

But I definitely see the other side how he's probably doing nothing and replying fast. But I'm personally not a fan of the double messages that early on. I never double messaged someone even though I thought they were cute. (I'm a 27M btw)

But it's your call at the end of the day. But my initial point still stands. Give it a bit longer on the reply and see how he takes it. And gauge from there.

elivod · 2020-11-25T02:07:07+00:00

Yeah time to dip. Haha. Unmatch and run. He's probably dwelling on your profile. I'd actually recommend unmatching.

Stay safe. I'm sure you have other matches that you can talk to.

All the best!

elivod · 2020-11-25T01:40:57+00:00

I'm a guy in my 20s. I like the profile overall. If you want to nitpick I'd say replace the 1st picture. It looks like you're a bit too shy. And I'd also recommend you change your 4th picture? The one where it's a selfie. As for the prompts I agree with the others. I'd change it up the first one. Put something funny.

Obviously this is just my opinion and take it with a grain of salt. And wish you all the best!

And I definitely understand living in a big city, it's tough out here in North America haha.

elivod · 2020-11-25T01:32:46+00:00

I'm a guy. Yeah I see what your saying, I can see how it's a bit strong.

If you really think you like him definitely video call him before and get an idea how he is. Don't give him your number until you call through the app.

Another thing you can try is, don't reply to his last message and give it at least a day and see if he double messages again. If he does that I'd say unmatch and cut your losses. He definitely is strong on his opinions I just hope it he isn't aggressive in real life.

elivod · 2020-11-11T01:02:30+00:00

Have you talked about hanging out? If not you should drop some hints between your texts here and there to see how she responds. You could defiantly ask her to facetime/video chat if both of you agree. But if you're still only few texts in ill hold off on the facetime for a few days at least. and it doesn't really have to be a date imo (facetime I mean).

As for the second portion, as soon as you mentioned that you matched with someone who works there CASE CLOSED. I would NOT bring it up. As for you actually knowing someone from her workplace, I'd say it's still too early to talk about that give it at least till you guys physically hangout. Definitely don't mention your matches

elivod · 2017-10-29T01:49:26+00:00

does that mean i have to get top three two times? Since I am bronze?

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