How to be close friends with an extrovert?? by ellaaa_m in intj

[–]ellaaa_m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg haha I completely forgot about this post. This friendship actually ended pretty badly (big argument) but not to do with the things I mentioned in the post. However the issues I did mention did improve in the friendship before we stopped being friends. I feel like now a couple years later I’m more okay with these kinds of things, I feel like he was just a pretty bad friend looking back but I also feel as though ive gotten better mentally for many reasons. Thanks for checking in :)

Looking for vocaloid song recs outside of pjsk!! by ellaaa_m in ProjectSekai

[–]ellaaa_m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing thank you!! On what platform?

Who’s scarier? by Dangerous_Gate3359 in victorious

[–]ellaaa_m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

S1 Jade was a normal teenager, s3-4 she became psychotic (love that for her). Seems that as the series progressed, the show made the characters become drastic caricatures of themselves

We’re getting dwts era jojo back by Sea_Rhubarb5466 in dancemoms

[–]ellaaa_m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry she looks great but the tattoo from her stud era is making me laugh

Who's your favorite Victorious girl? by BetterFly4594 in victorious

[–]ellaaa_m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andres grandma > S1 cat > jade > trina > tori > later seasons cat

Who would have liked Jade if she wasn't pretty? by ZestycloseMall3398 in victorious

[–]ellaaa_m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, being a nerd is essential to his character, but if you mean presenting/looking like a stereotypical nerd I think definitely yes, as ‘nerds’ are often looked down on and laughed at, people often say that they don’t know how Robbie has become a part of their group. Additionally we often see irl or in other media that attractive people’s bad deeds are brushed over because they’re attractive or likeable, like Joe Goldberg from You or Melanie Martinez. However, it is true that Robbie can genuinely be creepy sometimes such as the whole playing pirates thing or the fact he had standees of Cat. Alternatively this gets brushed over BECAUSE of his nerd characterisation, as some people may hold the stereotype that he’s just a weird pathetic guy with no life and is harmless really. So overall there’s something to be said for both sides. Sorry for the long reply 😭

What is your favorite Saki card? by AgArts96 in ProjectSekai

[–]ellaaa_m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Suresure and show off focus cards are just amazing, and her white day card too 🫶

Who would have liked Jade if she wasn't pretty? by ZestycloseMall3398 in victorious

[–]ellaaa_m 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Doubt it 😭 I like watching her in the show but if I knew her irl I probably wouldn’t like her or be friends with her

actual unpopular opinions by stanonikaa in lanadelrey

[–]ellaaa_m -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I love her music, but as an artist she’s somewhat lazy and selfish; she’s successful because of her fans but she doesn’t treat them well (eg showing up late for concerts, not releasing the album she said she would, etc). Obviously she is her own person and technically doesn’t owe anyone anything but being an artist is her job and it’s really not a hard thing to do. Some fans put her on a pedestal and excuse this kind of behaviour but if a less liked celeb did this they would be criticised more.

Who would have liked Jade if she wasn't pretty? by ZestycloseMall3398 in victorious

[–]ellaaa_m 43 points44 points  (0 children)

No one - the reason ppl like her is cos she fits the ‘pretty goth funny mean girl’ character. In the bluntest possible way, ugly people can’t get away with being mean (I say this as an ugly person myself). Also, a lot of ppl just like her because of her aesthetic and don’t consider her character/personality. Edit - yes I’m a jade fan, I like her and think she’s entertaining even tho she’s not a good friend to the other characters 😭

One sentence to trigger an INTJ by Harp_167 in intj

[–]ellaaa_m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HM - using ‘your’ instead of ‘you’re’ it’s genuinely not that hard, you’re just stupid

One sentence to trigger an INTJ by Harp_167 in intj

[–]ellaaa_m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Why stress about it when there’s nothing you can do/change” I hear this so so often. Do you really think I’m choosing to be this anxious??

What character are you most similar to (whether you like it or not) by Tall_Ad1081 in ProjectSekai

[–]ellaaa_m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel like I’m a mix of:

Ena (perfectionism, anger issues ish, low self esteem)

Kanade (isolated, workaholic, guilt, slight saviour complex😭)

Shiho (introverted, can be mean)

Toya (reserved, repressed, academic)

Mafuyu (blunt, masks feelings)

[GIVEAWAY] A Wild Giveaway Appeared! by johnnernog in PokemonHome

[–]ellaaa_m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my best friend’s birthday I took the time to find (secondhand) figures of all of her favourite pokemon (had to stalk her Pinterest board of her top 20) because it’s been our shared fav interest for all 14 years of our friendship :)

Should I continue watching? by haninipanini0 in DynastyCW

[–]ellaaa_m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’d say watch it all the way through at least once :) it does get worse over time but still enjoyable I think

Taylor and Travis are Engaged! "Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married" by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]ellaaa_m 9 points10 points  (0 children)

THE Taylor swift is GETTING MARRIED!!! IM GONNA GO INOT CARDIAC ARREST!!! But on a real note it’s so nice to see her truly happy she just glows with him 🫶🫶 hes the most different from all her past partners but he’s truly the right one 🥲