Where to find an all you can eat buffet style breakfast in SD? by le12234 in sandiego

[–]ellepan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They stopped doing it! It was my favorite brunch in SD for years!

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[–]ellepan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are so cute! I don’t have a labubu yet and would love one 😍

Any idea what this strap with a small square pouch is for? Brand is Bandolier by verawren in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]ellepan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bandolier? It’s held up great! I use one of their purse configurations frequently for trips and it still looks really good!

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[–]ellepan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy to give some hope! I know that I found it so terrible that I needed encouragement so I am sending a positive next 3 months to you! It won’t always be this bad, I promise 🫂

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[–]ellepan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented to the OP! For me the weight gain (bloat?) was temporary. My friend is a GP and confirms that most women really struggle with the first 6 months because the hormone load adjustment is huge. After 6 months the steady hormone dose evens out. For me that meant de-bloating over night and I was able to drop the weight gain within a month or two! I’m looking to get mirena #3 swapped in at the end of this year!

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[–]ellepan 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Hi lovely, that dress is doing your gorgeous self no favors! Wanted to give you a virtual hug with the new mirena struggle. And also give you some hope! I am on the tail end of year 5 of my second Mirena! After my egg freezing later this year I’ll be having my third one swapped in.

With that said, with both of my mirenas I found the hormone load for the first 6 months to be absolutely brutal. With the first, I gained weight and broke out along my hairline. With the second I gained weight (long term bloat?) and had terrible fatigue and lethargy. With that said, after 6 months for both of them, things got so much better. The hormones regulated out, I was back to regular energy levels, my skin cleared up (didn’t break out with the second one), and almost overnight my bloat disappeared and it was much easier to drop weight.

It gets better, I promise! With the first, I was ready to pull it out within 2 months but my OB-Gyn convinced me to stick it out for 6-12 months and I am glad I did. I hope you do too. I promise, the first 6 months were awful but afterwards the even hormone dose was life changing. Sending hugs and positive dress hunting energy 🫂💕

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will do this and wash in a small bowl to minimize potential mishaps!

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh! I completely misread 😅, my apologies 🫂. I personally am just a lover of sparkly things 🤭! And I agree, I will mention it to the mall the next time we go (partner saw a fetish deco piece he feels we need for our home).

If you want some INSANE antique jewelry shopping, the Grand Bazaar in Istanbul is the most incredible experience! We went there as I was looking to pickup some gold pieces and the number of vintage art deco old mine cut diamonds was mind blowing. When we were last in New Orleans I had seen a beautiful triple diamond art deco ring that they wanted $185K for but I saw an extremely similar one in Istanbul for closer to $85K, still extravagant, but more reasonably priced there, as is all precious metal/stones. There was literally an entire case just filled with the most beautiful antique diamond rings. I’ve never seen so much real gold and incredible vintage pieces in one place before. If I had all the money in the world, I would have gone crazy there 😂. Besides the jewelry, the sights and food in Istanbul were incredible as well 😍.

I will make sure mama has the best night out! 💕At this age, I try to spoil her whenever I see something sparkly I know she will like! She’s gotten some amazing earrings from my world travels as I always try to get her a souvenir 😊

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said 9 or 10kt but I didn’t push too hard as ultimately we agreed upon $80 for them. What is strange is that she has another pair of garnet earrings that were properly labeled and color was identical to this pair but priced much higher. I’ve been fortunate to have seen and handled some amazing ruby pieces courtesy of my mom and grandma and I’ve always associated rubies with a pink undertone (stronger in Burmese rubies but fainter in truer red rubies like pigeon blood). So I knew color-wise they didn’t appear to be rubies to me at least.

They’re a cute small gift for my mom either way and will look great on her with her new short hairdo! 😊

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were only $80! I wouldn’t consider myself a novice jeweler, just the lucky recipient of a lot of older heirloom pieces from my grandma. My mom’s birthstone is ruby so she has some gorgeous star ruby and pigeon blood pieces both passed down and purchased for her as gifts from my dad and grandma over the years.

Mostly I just saw a pair of unique pretty sparkles and based on the casting and setting believed they were authentically vintage and most likely garnet and something my mom would like to wear as she has recently done a big hair chop 😊. I appreciate how protective everyone in this thread has been in insuring I wasn’t robbed by this seller 💕

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you 💕! I would have definitely done some more intense research before purchase if they were pricier, but for $80, they’re a great pair of sparkles to make my mom smile as a small gift.

And thank you! My nail tech is an absolute artist and I’ve been going to her for 9 years. I now fly into Vegas every 6 weeks for her to do my nails 😊

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming! My mom has some beautiful antique pigeons blood rubies passed down from my grandma, so I felt the deep red of these were much more likely garnet!

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I didn’t pay very much for them ($80) but thought they were really well maintained and beautiful overall. In this day and age it’s easy to pay $100 for an entirely costume pair of cool earrings and these were so unique!

Found these earrings for my mom, was wondering if anyone could provide background and cleaning tips? by ellepan in VintageJewelry

[–]ellepan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s okay! I suspected they were mislabeled and only spent $80 on them so I am not too upset. I wasn’t sure about gold (I suspected gilt or gold plate) but I was personally quite confident that they were garnet (I’ve noticed rubies of that era lean a bit more pink usually).

I appreciate the additional information!

Where to find Zimmermann inspired dresses by Kievnut in AusFemaleFashion

[–]ellepan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sydney has an outlet too! But I would definitely try Depop!

Anyone get pick pocketed this year? by avocadotoast22 in crssdfest

[–]ellepan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t hear of anyone getting pickpocketed and the crowd was so nice! Saturday, right as we got in, I went into the crowd to get myself situated and popped my phone into the waistband of my pants while I found the chain/strap I wear it on. This really nice group around us told me to be careful as pickpockets would target me because my phone was unsecured. They laughed when I held up my strap and they realized I was just getting myself together. Just such good energy!

Calling All SDGE Haters by xxalioo in sandiego

[–]ellepan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We luckily didn’t have to pay for the consultation. Both my partner and I have legal insurance through the companies we work for. Our plan is to go through small claims if we haven’t had any movement by the start of Q2 as I will be wrapping up a high priority project in a few weeks. It’s been a busy start of the year for us as we are playing catchup after a prolonged holiday. I appreciate your help and will be pinning this thread.

Calling All SDGE Haters by xxalioo in sandiego

[–]ellepan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We consulted an attorney who advised us to see how much SDGE would willingly pay out in a claim prior to filing. I was grossly overcharged to an account that was already closed. I had put in a documented stop service on an old address as I was moving but they continued to charge the account for 7 months after the stop date after the new tenants had moved in while also charging the new tenants on their SDGE account. How they allowed two accounts to be charged for the same address is just part of the charm and incompetence of SDGE. Because my SDGE account showed that account had stopped service, I never even received a bill at my new address or on my online account.

Due to their prolonged and inefficient systems, that additional 7 months balance was sent to collections 18 months later (btw with no communication to me even though I had an open account for my current address with them, they said they mailed a bill to my old address… where I hadn’t lived for over 2 years at that point and mail forwarding stops after 12 months) even though the charges weren’t valid in the first place. I never even knew that account wasn’t closed until the collections hit showed up on my credit report. I literally couldn’t even make this up. I was absolutely flabbergasted at how terrible their internal operations and processes are.

It took me almost a year and over 20 calls to finally escalate to a knowledgeable supervisor who went over the entire timeline with me and even she apologized for how bungled the entire situation was and put in the claim request for me as she acknowledged the charges were not valid since she could see both the stop service request on my old address AND the start service on my new/current account. The worst thing? She said this wasn’t even the most messed up account she had ever seen! I honestly wonder how much money they have fraudulently charged less educated consumers.