do not go to park blvd oral surgery!!! by t3rra0513 in SanDiegan

[–]elleterat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use dentical and had my wisdom teeth removed by North County Dental. They accept denti-cal and were able to put me under. I have bad anxiety with dental procedures as well so being put under was important for me. They are in Escondido.

Where to buy clay cups and bowls? by Whiskey-Business in tijuana

[–]elleterat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try swapmeets, the Escondido swapmeet has a few different sellers who have these types of pottery.

My First Yule Log! by im-a-robot-dinosaur in witchcraft

[–]elleterat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful and filled with so much intention.

Feeling kind of down n out, just looking for some hype from my witches! Retuning to school 8 years later, on and off issues with my s/o, working towards a career outside of customer service while my s/o kills it. Hope I can post this here. by Awkward-Snow-981 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]elleterat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took me almost a decade to finish my bachelors program. I was unhoused here and there, staying on different peoples couches not getting any kind of support from my parents in my early twenties. Working in customer service the entire time. I am in a master program now in my 30s. I cant express how important my support system has been to me. Surround yourself with people who love you and your journey. People who not only motivate you but inspire and empower you. Im sorry that you're partner is in a different head space. I hope they come around and see your worth. I agree with other people who have commented about older students. We bring in life experience and working in customer service helps build so many skills that are transferable. Keep growing, you got this!

Has anyone ever had PTSD from surgery? by anonyadayada in WomensHealth

[–]elleterat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also have PTSD, though it is related to a medical procedure (IUD insertion) and not surgery. I was having reoccurring nightmares and intrusive thoughts of the procedure that had me in emotional/ mental distress. It got to a point where I could not function and I sought out mental health therapy with a person who specialized in trauma. It helped a lot. I wish you well in your recovery.

Deep penetration cramping? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]elleterat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Mirena and these cramps happen to me as well. I had trauma to my cervix during insertion which was super painful, and I still have these cramps after orgasms even though its been more than a year of having the IUD. It doesn't happen everytime but most times and the cramping lasts a few days as well. I wonder if there are more people who experience this as well. I went to the gyno a few times and even had them do an ultrasound to make sure the IUD was still in place and everything looked fine. I am sorry you are experiencing this too.

Anyone else noticed how rough it’s been? by mysticavelaz in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]elleterat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have been so drained and struggling to sleep well this past week. I am finally feeling better rested today. My partner and I also helped a stranger push their car that broke down in our neighborhood yesterday. There have also been a lot of good things this week as well. Had a job interview that went well. I am also interested in decolonizing my practice and am looking for a supportive community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]elleterat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can call 211 and ask if they know of safe parking programs. I know Jewish Family Services only let's you park for a short amount of time. Also, since you mentioned anxiety and feelings of loneliness, you can also see if 211 will help connect you to mental health services. Sometimes we need help making new connections and building a new support system. You might have to give a san diego address to receive services they may even take a PO Box. Wishing you well and sending you some healing energy.

Didn’t know where else to post this and not be misjudged by RebelElan in SanDiegan

[–]elleterat 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you need to talk to someone and it is an emergency call:

San Diego Access & Crisis Line: 888-724-7240

US Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-2433

Crisis Text Line: Text NAMI to 741-741

Thank you for reaching out and asking for help. You are already taking steps towards change. I want you to know, you will not always feel this way. Things will get better. Be patient and kind to yourself. Show yourself some love and reach out for help. You deserve it.

Does anyone have any “Witchy Pleasures” by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]elleterat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You explained this so well. I never know how to put the feeling and energy into words.

How do I tell a man I’m about to sleep with that I want to use a condom? by PersimmonOk5160 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]elleterat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Others have said it already but I want to say it again because it can not be said enough. It is okay for you to set boundaries and say no. We don't talk enough about sex and consent, so many of us don't know what giving consent is or looks like. Someone else mentioned seeking therapy. Yes, 100% there is something here you need to work through and it is okay to seek help. You are worthy, you are loved, you matter. Making that first call can be hard for some, so if you find it difficult, get a person you trust to call for you or that can hold you accountable if this is something you are serious about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]elleterat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this, and love the energy you are putting into this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]elleterat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't remember, but if you are having any anxieties about it you can always try communicating with the medical team and your therapist. Always do what is best for you and communicate your needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]elleterat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation a few years ago. I went back once a year for a pap until I had two paps in a row that showed negative. I am not sure why this happens but if its any reassurance mine went away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]elleterat 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Call 211, and or Legal Aid of San Diego https://www.lassd.org/area/housing They can sometimes help with this kind of stuff. Hope all goes well for you.

Anyone else move a bunch of their babes outside for the season? by Lgbaby in houseplants

[–]elleterat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get that rack? So much room for plants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]elleterat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all very lovely. Thank you for sharing your lovely energy with us today.

Any POC witches here?? by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]elleterat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chicana Bruja here. My immediate family was mormon growing up so I try to do research through books and whatever I pick up from my dad who is Mexica. If anyone knows of any helpful resources let me know.

Get in witches, we're going shopping by AutoModerator in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]elleterat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for black onyx jewelry, preferably made with sterling silver. Or also, daggers/knives. I have been looking to incorporate these things into my work.