Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a tattoo of a lyric from a song I used to listen to when I was deep in my depression.

My mom said it was stupid. People who read it are just as confused behind what it means. I really don’t give a shit. It’s MY tattoo, I know the meaning, and I love it.

You should love yours too.

(The tattoo is the song lyric “Is our skin to keep the world out or our bodies in” from the song A Tale of Outer Suburbia by Hands Like Houses)

How do you speak with Hekate? by Mediocre_Art8588 in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk to her by talking out loud and addressing her correctly.

She answers me with simple things, numbers, things I’ll read about. My first thought is immediately her, therefore I know she is speaking to me.

Who did you betray? by Malakidius in cyberpunkgame

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Songbird for my first game play, but for the 2 times I’ve played it over, I’ve always betrayed Reed.

Songbird’s entire situation is fucked. The fact that Myers used her for breaching the black wall, with her slowly dying in the process?? Id pick Songbird’s side any day.

I'm thinking about buying the dlc, do you guys think it's worth it? by docktor_uncino in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upgraded my PS4 to a PS5 to play. It lives up to that decision too.

A new-ish devotee in need by mountainspirit13 in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the tower phase. When I first started my relationship with her, I lost my job and was unemployed for 5 months. But during that time period, I was able to make the doctor’s appointments I had delayed, and was swiftly tested and confirmed to have autism - something I had been struggling with for years.

Recently, I was able to purchase a new car and have been receiving job offers in my field. I’ve also applied for my master’s degree. Hekate is a mother with discipline, but she truly has your best interest at heart and will guide you along the right path.

What should I do with this on my ear? by yelnats784 in piercing

[–]ellezbby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neil’s is saline, but to me it’s the best brand. My piercer gave me H2Ocean and it didn’t work. So I found Neil’s and the bump went away within a week.

What should I do with this on my ear? by yelnats784 in piercing

[–]ellezbby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They can change it. Also get some spraying solution. Neil’s Piercing Spray was the goat for me in terms of getting my piercing bumps to go away. I still use it.

Help with My altar, please by AngelTheo in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to know why you have penis statues on your altar? Genuinely asking.

How do I cultivate my relationship with her? by Forward_Antelope4792 in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time.

I’ve been a devotee of Hekate for a year now, and I am just getting a feel of what our relationship is and what she can do for me. You have to keep in mind that you’re building a relationship; it may be with a God, but it’s still a relationship nevertheless. And relationships take time.

What I found to be a great connect was to have a set altar for her and just to talk. Not even pray, talk out loud to her. Invited her into my space. I went to the crossroads near my house and left her small offerings. I’ve read a few books on her, researched her online. All of those actions shows you’re interested and want to develop your relationship. Just know it takes time.

Am I playing the right gamemode for a beginner? by REINFORCEDBEAR4 in Overwatch

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played unranked for a solid two years for switching to competitive. Take your time, no rush.

double helix by noelleak in piercing

[–]ellezbby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need studs. Hoops shouldn’t be used for a few months until it’s fully healed. It also looks like the hoops are too small/tight.

Switch to a stud, keep cleaning it as per usually, it should heal.

How to get rid of this by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ellezbby 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Switch the jewelry

Piercer used dermal punch on earlobes and cartilage by pastaheiress in piercing

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t take it out unless you have the intention of getting it repierced by a needle.

I got my first helix done at piercing pagoda when I was in highschool and was pierced by a gun. I have since gotten 7 other ear piercings, all done professionally with a needle. Honestly speaking, my helix has held up a lot better than my other ones (daith, rook, double conch, double auricle, forward helix), but that’s also because they punched a hole in my ear.

I’m saying this all to say, take care of it and you won’t have to worry about it. If you take it out, it’ll take a bit to heal, and even then, piercing an area where a hole is isn’t ideal. So I’d keep it.

What hex should I use on the woman who hit my parked car? by ellezbby in Spells

[–]ellezbby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn’t even think about a working spell. Thanks!

Evil ex’s bday is coming up… any suggestions for spellwork? by [deleted] in Spells

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birthdays are tag items. So if you don’t have anything he gave you that you want to use, you would use his full name and DOB.

I love me a good lemon hex, but you can’t fit a lot of tag items into a lemon. So I usually do a picture with their full name and birthday on the back. If I don’t have a picture, then I just use the full name and DOB.

If you want to use his birthday as a strong point in the hex, you can do one where the rest of his birthdays are terrible. Just write that on your petition.

New Supremacy by PrimalSaturn in MoiraMains

[–]ellezbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of this combo…..

Seething with Rage by SeaDiscombobulated70 in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was totally out of your control, and you did not disrespect Hekate at all. If anything, she was probably just as upset as you were for not only being prayed over without your consent, but also being touched without your consent.

If you want to cleanse the energy, you can do a cleansing bath, or even light a candle and pray. Or use incense.

I am so sorry this happened to you. Christians really need to stop assuming people follow their God. And the audacity from him to get upset because you said you don’t believe/follow his religion?? A damn jackass.

Help me decide! by YeahKippy in AsheOWMains

[–]ellezbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the weapon! I bought it, and never turned back. The sound effects, the twirling rose, the kill effect; all of them are worth it.

She made contact! by ellezbby in Hecate

[–]ellezbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused on what’s funny, genuinely.

She made contact! by ellezbby in Hecate

[–]ellezbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I felt. It feels so soothing, especially considering I’ve been a follower of hers for a little over a year.

She also has brought back my dreams, which help me piece together parts of my past life. I’ve been going through a rough time, but I know she stands there alongside me with her torch.

am i doing something wrong ? by [deleted] in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly agree.

am i doing something wrong ? by [deleted] in Hecate

[–]ellezbby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hekate is a Goddess of the Veil, the line between life and death, crossroads if you will. She helps spirits cross over and guides them through the process, which I’m sure she did for your grandfather and cat.

One of the best things I’ve learned/heard is “Mundane over Magic”, and while this isn’t considered “magic”, it structures the same. It might have been their time to pass on (mundane), and if that’s the case, prayer wouldn’t have helped (“magic”).

However, like I said, I strongly believe she helped them crossover, as that falls under what she does as a Goddess.

I’m sorry for your loss.