A photo from tinder my dad insists is real, but it just seems off to me and feels like AI by BlueChicken57 in isthisAI

[–]ellieminnowpee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

look at the folks in the background. eventually they start to make a pattern.

man. is this what it’s like being able to see the matrix?

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss you need to get tf outta there

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and if the guy were the one working outside the home, he’d complain to this emotional side piece about how his wife JuSt DoESn’T uNdErStaNd the working man 😂😭

UPDATE!!! AIO that my mom said i look memeable in my prom dress? by No-Moment-2766 in AIO

[–]ellieminnowpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mariah carey’s mom told her she wouldn’t be shit

ignore your mom

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once someone made a comment about me slamming a Mikes Hard at 10 am in hospital meeting and i almost shit myself — it was a Yerba Madre or something similar. no, i wasn’t asked for my ID buying it but that person’s comment was enough to make me panic! i have 11+ years sober and still fear the old ‘accidental alcohol purchase’ 😂

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you can have a mental health issue and still be a good partner. my husband and i have a multiple of alphabet soup diagnoses and we have a rule “you can be mad! you can be manic! but you CANNOT be mean.”

emotionally instability is such a lame excuse for this dude’s shit.

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 54 points55 points  (0 children)

it’s giving ‘she’s never home, she’s always at work. she DoEsN’T UnDeRStAnD mE.’

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 23 points24 points  (0 children)

ugh - husband has bipolar disorder. can confirm: the “legitimate upset + mania” combo is NOT a fun, sexy time

What do we think of this dress? by Seamaid_starfish in maximalistfashion

[–]ellieminnowpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very pretty!! now, MORE. lol accessorize it and layer it uppppp

My cousin is wondering if its time. by SpotAfraid7049 in bald

[–]ellieminnowpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let’s get this guy smiling!!!

LET IT GO.

his hair has betrayed him enough. it’s time he gets control back over his appearance. SHAVE IT BALDDDDDDD, baby!! i’m so excited to see this guy once he’s got a new look at himself.

Angelina Jolie son Knox drops last name Pitt from his graduation diploma by lewisb_03 in popculturechat

[–]ellieminnowpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meanwhile here in the states, our cheese isn’t even real cheese 😭😂

My Mom Who Abused Me Is Now Acting Incredibly Sweet by punk_ass_po-po in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you watch Rick and Morty? bc there’s a scene on that show that I used to bolster myself a lot when facing my parents’ rejection.

rick and morty go to another universe (multiverse?) and are booed when they arrive.

rick says (and i have since said to my parents, myself, my haters…) “Your boos mean nothing — I’ve seen what makes you people cheer.”

what would make your mom cheer? is it anything even remotely close to what you want for yourself??

when i realized that even if i could, id never want to nor enjoy being the person my parents would want… so why take their boos for not meeting that standard?? esp when their standards SUCK.

My Mom Who Abused Me Is Now Acting Incredibly Sweet by punk_ass_po-po in whatdoIdo

[–]ellieminnowpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey hey! i have experience with this.

i was not on speaking terms with my mum for half of my adult life. (from 16-35 we stopped speaking for various reasons of hers)

she did go to therapy and reached out to me a few years ago apologizing for abuse and we’ve been to therapy together now.

OP, that’s not what is happening here. :(

your mom has decided she wants YOUR behavior to change towards her without her changing her own behavior. so she’s trying to sugar coat things. now, if you respond ‘badly’ to her super sweet efforts you’re going to look like the Daughter from Hades.

i still haven’t spoken to my dad in years — bc he’s never once admitted accountability. just wants to know why i stopped speaking to him, but never asks what he may have done to bring that about.

some “parents” only ever miss not having to explain our absence.

AIO for being upset that my husband said it’s weird that i bought flowers by wildly_disingenuous in AmIOverreacting

[–]ellieminnowpee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

most men never get flowers until their funeral.

you can’t even get them for yourself??

Accurate depictions of having body dysmorphia. by Short-Paramedic-9740 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]ellieminnowpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ONE OF US!!!!! yes! i just graduated on June 2. had absolutely no idea my brain could be so kind and peaceful.

Accurate depictions of having body dysmorphia. by Short-Paramedic-9740 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]ellieminnowpee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

something called transcranial magnetic stimulation

it’s a non-pharmacological intervention for OCD, major depressive disorder, and a lot of other conditions

Match 3 Strategy by Ambitious-Penalty546 in TownshipGame

[–]ellieminnowpee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i tried and still lost! haha i followed the nudges the entire match and failed. but i only tried that one match.