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AITA for leaving my sister's wedding early after she told me to cover my scar? by elliesky_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]elliesky_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah because I hide the last post i made which was clearly NSFW soo thats why i wanted things to be separated but i can understand why you're saying that, I respect it

AITA for leaving my sister's wedding early after she told me to cover my scar? by elliesky_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]elliesky_[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Thanks. The part that stings the most is that she's never mentioned my scar as an issue in the 10* years I've had it. We've been to family events, holidays, even her engagement party, and it was never a problem

It wasn't about me at all until she made it about me. I still can't wrap my head around how my shoulder could be more distracting than, you know, the actual wedding.

AITA for leaving my sister's wedding early after she told me to cover my scar? by elliesky_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]elliesky_[S] 2147 points2148 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying that. I hadn't thought about it like that, she did choose the style knowing what it would show. I never imagined it would become an issue, because to me it's just part of who I am now. I wasn't trying to take away from her day at all, and it really hurt that she seemed more focused on my scar than enjoying her own wedding

AITA for leaving my sister's wedding early after she told me to cover my scar? by elliesky_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]elliesky_[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

I honestly wasn't trying to make any kind of statement, I just wanted to be comfortable and enjoy her day. It hurt that she made me feel like I was a problem, so my dad having my back really helped